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Top 10 Unsexy Things That Can Improve Your Sex Life

Friday, March 22, 2013

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Improving your sex life isn’t always about switching positions or adding more lube (though those things can help, too). Here are ten everyday things you can do to improve your sex life. 1. Get a good night’s sleep. When you’re tired or stressed you feel unsexy and irritable. And have you ever noticed how, after [...]

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How to Use a Flogger

Thursday, March 21, 2013

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Sensua Suede Whip by Lelo The following is from our very own naughty dictionary,¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink.¬†Bolded words signify individual entries that appear elsewhere in the A-to-Z section of the book. Anything with a tie icon¬†¬†indicates an activity or prop mentioned in the¬†Fifty Shades¬†series (symbolic of the famous woven tie¬†Christian [...]

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Top 20 Ways NOT to Kiss

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

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photo via Flickr Sometimes it’s easier to impart sexual technique by focusing on what NOT to do — especially when it comes to something as variable as kissing, where there are so many different styles, techniques and preferences that many people enjoy. So by focusing on the negative — the 20 things almost all people [...]

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How (and Why) to Have Sex with the Lights On

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

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photo via flickr Last week a reader named Candi posted the following comment about her sexual insecurities in response to our article “10 Reasons Your ‘Ugly Vagina’ Is Normal and Gorgeous”: I’m so glad to find this site, but I’m still a bit insecure when it comes to my vulva. Reading through all these comments [...]

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Top 10 Ways to Make Oral Sex More Fun for Both Partners

Thursday, March 14, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has some words of wisdom to share about oral sex… Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the [...]

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Quickie Advice: How Can I Increase My Energy for Sex?

Friday, February 22, 2013

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photo via Flickr Last week, we were on Kiss FM in Toledo promoting¬†150 Shades of Play¬†and fielding listeners’ questions. There were some good ones we wanted to share them here on¬†EMandLO.com¬†this week. So each day we’re featuring a quick question with some lightening advice from yours truly. Today’s question: Both me and my husband are [...]

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Quickie Advice: How Do I Get My Hubby to Try Something New & Kinky?

Monday, February 18, 2013

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Lelo’s Etherea Silk Cuffs Last week, we were on Kiss FM in Toledo promoting 150 Shades of Play and fielding listeners’ questions. There were some good ones we wanted to share them here on¬†EMandLO.com¬†this week. So each day we’re featuring a quick question with some lightening advice from yours truly. Today’s question: How do I [...]

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The Valentine’s Day Issue

Sunday, February 10, 2013

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The Best Valentine’s Day Present Ever! The top 10 reasons why our new book¬†150 Shades of Play makes the best Valentine‚Äôs Day present ever! 10 Easy Ways to Be More Romantic Romance is contagious. So the best way to get your partner to be more romantic is to be more romantic with them first. How [...]

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Top 5 Things to Try in Bed on Valentine’s Night

Friday, February 8, 2013

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photo via Wiki Commons We know that it’s pretty traditional on Valentine’s Day to share a candle-lit dinner which concludes with some kind of dessert involving chocolate and strawberries, and then you go home for face-holding, teary-eyed, missionary sex together. Well, in case you hadn’t noticed, we’re not exactly the traditional type around here. So [...]

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How to Let Someone Down Easy

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

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photo via Real Simple Each month, Real Simple magazine runs an expertise column in which 5 experts give their best advice on a particular subject. This month, we had the honor of being one of those experts. The topic this month was how to reject someone nicely (necessary info for a lot of people during [...]

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