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Tag Archive | "Intercourse"

I Love My Husband But Not Our Sex Life – Should I Leave?

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

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photo via Flickr Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Hi Em & Lo, I’m with my husband thirteen years, only married for two. In all that time I’ve had maybe four orgasms. He can’t get me off, but he also told me before he doesn’t like me touching myself during [...]

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6 Steps for Teaching Yourself to Orgasm

Thursday, November 29, 2012

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Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been sexually active on and off for about four years now. The problem is that throughout those four years I have never reached an orgasm. I’ve had sex with partners and even bought a vibrator, but I still don’t think I’m finishing. When I use a vibrator it’ll be really [...]

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You Are Not Alone: Healing Painful Sex

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

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The following is an excerpt from the introduction of the book “Healing Painful Sex: A Woman’s Guide to Confronting, Diagnosing, and Treating Sexual Pain” by Deborah Coady, MD, and Nancy Fish, MSW. If you have ever felt pain during or because of sex, you are not alone. It‚Äôs estimated that 16 to 20 percent of [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I Am Drowning in Man Juice!

Thursday, September 27, 2012

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photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: There is no eloquent way to put [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Get the Sex You Want

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

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photo via Flickr For the second week in a row, our favorite comment has been in response¬†to the post, “Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm”¬†–¬†¬†this week reader¬†Tess¬†has some similarly spot on advice: …if this pattern [of unsatisfying sex] is all that [your husband] knows, then you can’t expect him [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Most Men Define “Sex”?

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

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photo by Ad Meskens Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúHow do you define what constitutes sex? Ask the Wise GuysYour Own Question! Is it penetration (with anything or just a penis)? Oral attention? Mutual orgasms? Mutual naked pleasure? etc.“ Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos¬†of¬†The White Swallow): ¬†After being single [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Really Think About Baseball to Last Longer?

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do men really think about baseball to make sex last longer? If they don’t know anything about baseball, what else do they think about?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): I [...]

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Survey Debunks Some of Our Least Favorite Sex Myths

Thursday, August 2, 2012

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photo via flickr We’re always a little skeptical when sex research is sponsored by a commercial product — as opposed to, say, an academic institution. That said, the commercially-driven surveys tend to have a lot of money and resources behind them, and every now and then, interesting stuff comes out of them. Take the new [...]

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KEGEL WEEK: Dear Dr. Vanessa, What’s Up with Kegels?

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

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image via flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I went to the gynecologist the other day and she said she could tell [...]

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KEGEL WEEK: How To Do Kegels (for HER)

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

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Luna Beads by Lelo Yesterday we went over the anatomy of your genital muscles and introduced you to the man who invented Kegels. Today, we instruct you, ladies, on how to actually do the strengthening exercises. (Guys, you’re up next.) The following is excerpted from our first sex manual,¬†The Big Bang: KEGELS FOR HER Not [...]

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