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Tag Archive | "Intercourse"

Wise Guys: Do Men Like Crazy Positions in Bed?

Tuesday, March 6, 2012


photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Are most guys really into tackling crazy sexual positions (e.g. the wheelbarrow) or are most men completely happy with the standards (e.g. missionary, woman on top, etc)? If it’s the former, why?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Married [...]

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Your Call: How Can a Relationship Work When the Sex Is Compromised?

Wednesday, February 22, 2012


We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. This week, we had two very similar inquiries from both a straight woman and a straight man. Make [...]

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Confession: Orgasmless Sex Isn’t Just a Female Thing

Thursday, February 9, 2012


photo via Flickr In keeping with this week’s “Did You Come?” theme, one of our recent college grad friends has a confession to make: The first time my boyfriend didn’t orgasm during sex I was completely shocked. This NEVER happened. Was I loosing my touch? Was I not sexy anymore? Was he bored or losing [...]

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Comment of the Week: Why It’s Okay to Ask, Did You Come?

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

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In response to our post “The Ten Worst Things You Can Say in Bed,” reader Walt Whitman wrote the following. And we have to say: he makes an excellent point! I take minor issue with #10. ["Did you come?"] I think it’s a bit romantic to presume that one’s partner will simply know whether the [...]

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The Ten Worst Things You Can Say in Bed

Wednesday, February 1, 2012


photo via flickr If we had to distill our entire body of sex advice into one word, it would probably be this: communicate. Before sex, during sex, after sex — speak up, people! It’s the only way to get what you need and want, and to make sure that your partner is getting what they [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Can the Cervix Get Hurt During Intercourse?

Thursday, January 26, 2012


photo via Flickr Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions every few weeks on EMandLO.com. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, What does it feel like when a man’s penis hits the cervix during intercourse? [...]

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Confession: The Top 10 Reasons to Love the Missionary Position

Thursday, November 17, 2011


photo via Failblog.org One of our college contributors, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: Everytime I check out Cosmo, look at Men’s Health with my boyfriend, or go to the sex aisle at Barnes and Noble, I see hundreds of very creative (and sometimes gravity-defying) ways that I “should” be having sex. But [...]

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5 Ways to Reconceptualize SEX

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

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photo via Flickr We’ve said it before, we’ll say it again: Sex is not intercourse. So stop using the two words interchangeably! When we as a society do this over and over again, it gets into the collective unconscious and starts limiting how we imagine the possibilities of pleasure, especially for women. A majority of [...]

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Wise Guys: Who Has to Work Harder During Sex, Men or Women?

Tuesday, September 13, 2011


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EM & LO‘s guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Who has to work harder during sex: men or women? Why?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): I know for a fact men have to work harder just to have sex in the first place. As for who [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Can You Get Pregnant Without Intercourse?

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

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photo by Marina(im.back) Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, Can you get pregnant without having actual intercourse? And if so, how? – Curious Georgina [...]

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