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6 Rules for Outdoor Sex

Thursday, June 2, 2011


photo via Flickr Now that the weather’s turning warmer, many people are overcome by two urges: to get outside and to get it on — two great tastes that taste great together! And so the season of outdoor sex has begun. But it’s not all fun and games like naked Slip n’ Slide — there [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa, Will Intercourse After a Dry Spell Hurt?

Wednesday, May 18, 2011


photo via Flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I haven’t had sex in over 8 months. When I finally do have intercourse [...]

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In Praise of the Quickie (And Quickie Erotica)

Friday, May 13, 2011


photo from Got a Minute? 60 Second Erotica Conventional wisdom would have us believe that all women need extended foreplay — at least 30 minutes’ worth — to get anywhere near an orgasm, which may be one reason why quickies aren’t embraced more. The thinking goes that women, on average, take a lot longer to [...]

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6 Sexual Habits Everyone Should Keep

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

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photo via CollegeCandy.com We constantly hear how we should avoid getting into a sexual rut and keep trying new things. But just as important is to develop some good sexual habits — things that you should be engaging in on a regular basis with your partner (whatever regular means to you) — now and always. [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: I Can’t Orgasm, What’s Wrong With Me?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011


photo by Janine Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I’m beginning to wonder if I’m unable to have an orgasm. I’ve been sexual with [...]

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Top 10 Most Overrated Sex Acts

Thursday, April 14, 2011


photo by hyku After more than a decade in the sex writing biz, we have seen our share of sexual gimmicks come and go, many of them vastly overrated. Below are the top ten sexual acts that, while they may be more substantial than gimmicks, continue to get more accolades than they deserve. Also, check [...]

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Confession: I Like the Sounds of Sex

Thursday, March 31, 2011


images via beautifulagony.com Our contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz — you can read her blog here — has a confession to make: You constantly hear about how men get off just from the sound of their partner’s moans and groans — there’s a reason that [...]

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Love Hurts — But Sometimes Sex Hurts More

Friday, March 25, 2011


photo by Janine For the past few weeks we’ve been talking about sex that hurts — and not in a heartache kind of way. Two weeks ago we published an excerpt from When Sex Hurts: A Woman’s Guide to Banishing Sexual Pain. Then last week we published a¬†basic overview of the causes of painful sex. [...]

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Why Sex Hurts — And We Don’t Mean Heartbreak

Thursday, March 17, 2011

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photo by Gabriel Delgado Last week we talked about when sex hurts, and why so many women still don’t admit to having this problem. It’s something that we, as sex writers, hear about constantly — it’s a sad but true fact that many women are more open with sex advice columnists than their own gynecologists [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Is Too Big for Me

Wednesday, March 16, 2011


Dear Em & Lo, My current guy and I get along great, but we may not be sexually compatible. He has a really thick penis (think large cucumber), and I seem to be too small! We have not had successful intercourse because it hurts me way too much. Have you ever heard of this problem [...]

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