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Tag Archive | "Kink"

Your Call: How Do I Set Limits in a New BDSM Relationship?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

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photo via Entertainment Weekly We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below (for a reader who appears to be dating a [...]

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The 12 Days of Kinkmas

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

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In honor of the special holiday sale price of our book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†(now under ten bucks for the first time ever!), we’re presenting own special sexy sacrilegious spin on a Xmas classic. Enjoy: On the 12th Day of Kinkmas my true sub gave to me… 12 Crops a [...]

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Last Week for FREE Shipping of 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Friday, December 13, 2013

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Kimono Robe by LELO Your holiday shopping days are dwindling, so don’t miss out on the chance to give your lover a naughty stocking stuffer, your best friend a companion piece to her dog-eared copy of Fifty Shades, or your coworkers something to blush over during the Secret Santa exchange at your holiday office party! [...]

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The Best Holiday Gift EVER Is Now Under 10 Bucks!

Friday, December 6, 2013

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Okay, we may be overstating things just a tad. But just check out the Amazon reviews and you’ll see that¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†– winner of a 2013 IPPY Award! –¬†is the most perfect, affordable, and easily purchased gift for: Your friend who can’t wait for the Fifty Shades of Grey¬†movies [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Risks of Making Your Fantasy a Reality

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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Reader Dave posted the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call: I Want My Wife to Have an Affair; She Thinks I‚Äôm Nuts”: I think you need to tread very carefully here‚Ķ just to give you my experience‚Ķ My wife and I often talked about her being with another guy while we [...]

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Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Thursday, October 10, 2013

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Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk [...]

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How to Tell a Vanilla Partner About Your Kink

Friday, September 13, 2013

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We frequently hear from readers who are struggling with an imbalance of kink in their relationship — one partner is vanilla while the other is decidedly chocolate-swirl-fudge. So we asked¬†Richard Wagner, a.k.a. Dr. Dick (seriously), the author of the new book The Gospel of Kink: A Modern Guide To Asking For What You Want And [...]

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Top 10 Things the “Fifty Shades” Movie Could Do Better Than the Book

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

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Since the casting was finally announced this past Monday for the adaptation of the first Fifty Shades of Grey book — with Charlie Hunnam (Sons of Anarchy)¬†as Christian Grey and Dakota Johnson (The Social Network) as Anastasia Steele — the general consensus has been “They got it wrong!” We’re not sure any casting would have [...]

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How to Introduce Kink Into Your Relationship (Esp If You’re a Dude)

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

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Lelo’s Etherea Silk Cuffs Our friend, previous Nerve coworker, and fellow writer Grant Stoddard recently hit us up for some insight for his Men’s Health article “Does She Deserve a Spanking?”¬†This is how these things go: article writer asks you (the author of a book on the subject in question) a bunch of questions, you [...]

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Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?

Monday, August 5, 2013

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your thoughts in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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