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Talking Shit (& Other Kinky Stuff) with Sex Educator Jamye Waxman

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

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We and Jamye Waxman go way back. We all got into the sex writing biz long before every college paper had its own sex column. Which is ancient in Internet years. And yet we’re all still so fresh-faced! Jamye is our kind of colleague: frank, feminist, and funny. So we were thrilled when she wanted [...]

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Erotic Deathmatch: Fifty Shades of Grey vs. 150 Shades of Play

Thursday, January 31, 2013

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Jamie Maclean is the founder and editor of the¬†Erotic Review Magazine,¬†an intelligent and artsy London-based website dedicated to sex (and NOT the US-based Yelp for escorts of a similar name). So how could we all¬†not get on?! And then he called us “New York‚Äôs coolest sex therapists” and said that our new book, 150 Shades [...]

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DIY Toys, Porn Probs & Aspirational Kink — Belle de Jour Interviews Us!

Monday, January 28, 2013

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You know the Showtime series “Secret Diary of a Call Girl” from a few years back? Well, before it was a Showtime show it was a British show. Before it was a British show, it was a series of books. Before it was a series of books, it was an award-winning blog ¬†called “Diary of [...]

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5 Ways That Getting Kinky Can Improve Your Relationship

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

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photo via flickr Our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, is on sale now. Here are five good reasons to check it out and get your kink on… 1. INCREASED TRUST It takes a boatload of trust to let someone tie you up or clamp your nipples or spank you [...]

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Last Chance for Great Last-Minute Gift: 150 SHADES OF PLAY!

Friday, December 21, 2012

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This is your last chance to give the MOST entertaining/romantic/kinky/informative, funny/sexy/outrageous holiday gift of the year! Our how-to companion piece to Fifty Shades of Grey titled¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink¬†is available now on¬†Amazon. Here are the remaining deadlines you have to beat to¬†get your copies by Xmas: THU 20TH:¬†Last full day [...]

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Top 10 Kinky New Year’s Resolutions

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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Tantra Feather Teaser and French Maid outfit by LELO As we say in our book (now on sale for less than ten bucks!), 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, “Being kinky might mean bringing props into the bedroom, it might mean acting out dark fantasies, it might even mean wearing something absolutely [...]

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The 12 Days of Kinkmas

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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In honor of the holidays and the recent publication of our new book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, we wanted to put our own special sexy sacrilegious spin on a Xmas classic. Enjoy: On the 12th Day of Kinkmas my true sub gave to me… 12 Crops a Cracking Disciplinary devices [...]

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Top 15 Kinky Celebrities

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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Of course celebrities like to get kinky — why would they do it vanilla style when they can don an outfit, get into character, and make a scene? And in the bedroom, there’s always an appreciative audience, (and, one would hope, no bad reviews). When you think about it, it’s just surprising more of them [...]

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H Is for Hardware Store… For All Your Kinky Shopping Needs

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! A hardware store is a one-stop shopping center for all your BDSM needs. Who [...]

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10 Simple Steps to Fifty-ize You Sex Life

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

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We just did an interview with Cosmopolitan about our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, and they turned it into a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom: 1. Talk Dirty to Him “Bringing up S&M with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way [...]

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