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Tag Archive | "Kinky"

5 Ways That Getting Kinky Can Improve Your Relationship

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

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photo via flickr Our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, is on sale now. Here are five good reasons to check it out and get your kink on… 1. INCREASED TRUST It takes a boatload of trust to let someone tie you up or clamp your nipples or spank you [...]

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Top 10 Kinky New Year’s Resolutions

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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Tantra Feather Teaser and French Maid outfit by LELO As we say in our book (now on sale for less than ten bucks!), 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, “Being kinky might mean bringing props into the bedroom, it might mean acting out dark fantasies, it might even mean wearing something absolutely [...]

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Top 15 Kinky Celebrities

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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Of course celebrities like to get kinky — why would they do it vanilla style when they can don an outfit, get into character, and make a scene? And in the bedroom, there’s always an appreciative audience, (and, one would hope, no bad reviews). When you think about it, it’s just surprising more of them [...]

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H Is for Hardware Store… For All Your Kinky Shopping Needs

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

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The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! A hardware store is a one-stop shopping center for all your BDSM needs. Who [...]

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How Headphones Can Kink Up Your Sex Life

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

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photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Ear plugs aren‚Äôt just for construction workers and insomniacs, and noise-canceling [...]

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S Is for Spanking

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

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photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “S”section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Spanking is hand-to-tush contact, which many consider more intimate and less scary [...]

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A Spanking Fetish Without the Cliche Emotional Baggage

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

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photo via flickr We don’t often read the “Modern Love” column in the New York Times Sunday Styles section these days — when you’ve been in the biz as long as we have, it’s easy to get cynical and feel like you’ve heard every story about love and sex there is to tell. But ¬†this [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love Can’t Conquer Kinky Differences

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

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Reader Xena said the following in response to our post “He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” The LESS likely scenario is that the vanilla partner will have bsdm needs awoken in them with time. But I would not bet on that scenario. The other very important thing to note is that even [...]

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Your Call: We Got Kinky Then She Dumped Me – Now What?

Friday, March 2, 2012

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & [...]

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5 Ways to Keep Sex Fresh and New — No, Seriously

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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photo by John Brawley If you want to feel like it’s the very first time, then it’s important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can‚Äôt get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being “experimental,” but the occasional awkward moment is a [...]

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