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Tag Archive | "Kinky"

S Is for Spanking

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

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photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “S”section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Spanking is hand-to-tush contact, which many consider more intimate and less scary [...]

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A Spanking Fetish Without the Cliche Emotional Baggage

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

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photo via flickr We don’t often read the “Modern Love” column in the New York Times Sunday Styles section these days — when you’ve been in the biz as long as we have, it’s easy to get cynical and feel like you’ve heard every story about love and sex there is to tell. But  this [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love Can’t Conquer Kinky Differences

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

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Reader Xena said the following in response to our post “He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” The LESS likely scenario is that the vanilla partner will have bsdm needs awoken in them with time. But I would not bet on that scenario. The other very important thing to note is that even [...]

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Your Call: We Got Kinky Then She Dumped Me – Now What?

Friday, March 2, 2012

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & [...]

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5 Ways to Keep Sex Fresh and New — No, Seriously

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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photo by John Brawley If you want to feel like it’s the very first time, then it’s important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can’t get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being “experimental,” but the occasional awkward moment is a [...]

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The 10 Rules of Wrist Restraint

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

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Lelo cuffs Today we are going to talk about “sensual bondage.” This is a kinder, gentler BDSM that just focuses on the simple wrist restraint of a partner who gives you their permission to do so first. Anything more complicated and you’ll need to school yourself thoroughly in the safety aspects of bondage, either with [...]

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Headphones: A New Twist on Sensory Deprivation

Friday, May 20, 2011

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photo by SS.ma You know the basic idea of sensory deprivation, right? You limit one or more senses, and the others gets stronger. Limit everything but touch, and your orgasm will feel like the center of the universe. You may have done this without even knowing you were enjoying sensory deprivation — when you blindfold [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Wife Asked Me to Slap Her

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

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photo by Mickey Sick Dear Em & Lo, My wife and I have been together just over five years. The other night while having sex, she asked me to slap her in the face. Repeatedly. I was raised not to lay a hand down on a woman, and now I am being asked to. We [...]

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Top 10 Items to Pack for Summer Vacation (We’re Not Talking Sunscreen)

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

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photo by faungg Don’t waste precious suitcase space on sunscreen this summer vacation—you can buy that when you arrive. But here are 10 items that you probably won’t be able to find at the resort, so pack them for guaranteed high temperatures, no matter what the weather is like. You might want to put them [...]

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How NOT to Spice Up Your Relationship

Friday, June 25, 2010

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photo by Jason Clapp The following Em & Lo article is also published in Sexis, EdenFantasys.com’s magazine: We’ve been in the magazine business for more than ten years, and we are still suckers for those stupid headlines like “537 Ways to Improve Your Sex Life TONIGHT!” We just can’t help flipping to that article while we’re stuck [...]

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