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Tag Archive | "Kinky"

Dear Em & Lo: Do My Kinky Fantasies Need Therapy?

Friday, October 9, 2009

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photo by Dale Gillard Dear Em & Lo, I have this really awesome, sensitive, caring, sweet, good-in-bed, blah blah blah boyfriend — I wouldn’t leave him for the world. I also have wild fantasies about being tied up, demeaned, beaten . . . you get the idea. Is this a problem? Maybe fantasies are not [...]

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Top 10 Spanking Tips

Thursday, September 24, 2009

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photo via Rachel_Kramer_Bussel Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It’s intimate, it’s saucy, and — when compared to, say, a whip or a flogger — it’s safe for newbies to try out. Also, [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Popsicle Solution

Thursday, September 3, 2009

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DIY popsicle mold, $9.99 at Amazon Earlier this week we published a letter from a reader who loves playing with ice in bed…but hates the way it freezes her fingers. She asked for a solution, and you guys came through! “One word — popsicle. Put a few sticks in the ice cube tray. And prepare [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Stop Ice from Numbing My Fingers in Bed?

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

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photo by Kyle_May Dear Em & Lo, We’ve had exceptionally hot weather for the last few days and my boyfriend and I thought this was the perfect time to get some ice cubes from the freezer for a bit of kink. I absolutely adored the chilling touch of the melting ice, it was an absolute [...]

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Do It Tonight: Blindfold Your Partner

Friday, August 21, 2009

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photo by nyki_m The blindfolds that come free with a transatlantic Virgin flight (oh, really, you shouldn’t have, Richard Branson) are sometimes printed with the phrase “forty winks” — and we think we know what kind of winks they’re talking about. Who hasn’t stuffed a complimentary blindfold into their carry-on and thought, “Ooh, I should [...]

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Advice: Conquering Jealousy in an Open Relationship

Friday, August 7, 2009

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photo by rileyroxx This past Wednesday we published a thank you letter from a reader who [patting ourselves firmly on the back] benefited from our advice concerning his open relationship. Well, we know that we’re not solely responsible for the success story, so we asked Zac to elaborate on how he was able to banish [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: A Very Contemporary Love Story

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

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About 18 months ago we answered a reader’s plea for advice about her open relationship (on our dearly departed blog, DailyBedpost). And then just this week we heard from the reader’s boyfriend, Zac, who told us that the advice totally worked! We’re suckers for a success story, especially when it’s one of our own, so [...]

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Your Call: Can a Marriage Survive a Consensual Third Party?

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

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photo by linh.ngân We know that a helpful answer to this question goes deeper than a multiple-choice poll, so we encourage you to cast your vote and then leave your advice/war stories/encouragement for Maybe Baby in the comments section below. Dear Em & Lo, I hope you can help me and my wife with our [...]

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Confession: My BF and I Created a Fantasy Suggestion Box

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

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photo by hashmil Our contributor, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: My boyfriend and I used to fuck like bunnies.  And I don’t mean we were cute and cuddly in bed — I mean, we did it like they do on the Discovery Channel.  We couldn’t keep our dirty little paws [...]

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Books: The Other Side of Desire

Monday, July 6, 2009

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The Other Side of Desire is in bookstores now We’ve read — or at least skimmed — hundreds of books about sex in our ten years in the biz, and our shelves are stacked with tomes on everything from gays in the military to the science of seduction. Some educate us, some make us laugh, [...]

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