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Tag Archive | "Kinky"

How to Turn Your Headphones Into a Bedside Accessory

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

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photo by carolyn.will You know the basic idea of sensory deprivation, right? You limit one or more senses, and the others get stronger. Limit everything but touch, and your orgasm will feel like the center of the universe. You may have done this without even knowing you were practicing sensory deprivation — with a blindfold, [...]

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Your Call on Spank Tuesday: How Do I Get My Guy to Spank Me?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

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photo via Rachel_Kramer_Bussel “Spank Tuesday” continues with this question from a reader: Dear Em & Lo, How do I ask my husband to spank me? It is many years since I was spanked. Do I just ask him or buy a paddle as a Valentine’s gift or what? – Red-Cheeked Wannabe What should Red-Cheeked Wannabe [...]

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How to Share a Fantasy in Three Easy(ish) Steps

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

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photo by smell_of_colours Sharing a fantasy with a partner can be a cheap and easy way to foster intimacy, build trust, and kink things up. But it takes a lot of courage to do. What if you think yours is too mundane to put into words (remember Meg Ryan’s faceless stranger fantasy in When Harry [...]

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Halloween Is for Role-Playing

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

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photo by tsuacctnt If you hate karaoke and public speaking is one of your greatest fears, then the whole idea of acting out your fantasies probably sounds about as appealing as, well, karaoke and public speaking. If that’s you, then you can use Halloween to gently test the sexual benefits of role-playing. It’s the perfect [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Do My Kinky Fantasies Need Therapy?

Friday, October 9, 2009

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photo by Dale Gillard Dear Em & Lo, I have this really awesome, sensitive, caring, sweet, good-in-bed, blah blah blah boyfriend — I wouldn’t leave him for the world. I also have wild fantasies about being tied up, demeaned, beaten . . . you get the idea. Is this a problem? Maybe fantasies are not [...]

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Top 10 Spanking Tips

Thursday, September 24, 2009

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photo via Rachel_Kramer_Bussel Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It’s intimate, it’s saucy, and — when compared to, say, a whip or a flogger — it’s safe for newbies to try out. Also, [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Popsicle Solution

Thursday, September 3, 2009

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DIY popsicle mold, $9.99 at Amazon Earlier this week we published a letter from a reader who loves playing with ice in bed…but hates the way it freezes her fingers. She asked for a solution, and you guys came through! “One word — popsicle. Put a few sticks in the ice cube tray. And prepare [...]

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Your Call: How Can I Stop Ice from Numbing My Fingers in Bed?

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

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photo by Kyle_May Dear Em & Lo, We’ve had exceptionally hot weather for the last few days and my boyfriend and I thought this was the perfect time to get some ice cubes from the freezer for a bit of kink. I absolutely adored the chilling touch of the melting ice, it was an absolute [...]

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Do It Tonight: Blindfold Your Partner

Friday, August 21, 2009

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photo by nyki_m The blindfolds that come free with a transatlantic Virgin flight (oh, really, you shouldn‚Äôt have, Richard Branson) are sometimes printed with the phrase “forty winks” — and we think we know what kind of winks they‚Äôre talking about. Who hasn‚Äôt stuffed a complimentary blindfold into their carry-on and thought, “Ooh, I should [...]

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Advice: Conquering Jealousy in an Open Relationship

Friday, August 7, 2009

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photo by rileyroxx This past Wednesday we published a thank you letter from a reader who [patting ourselves firmly on the back] benefited from our advice concerning his open relationship. Well, we know that we’re not solely responsible for the success story, so we asked Zac to elaborate on how he was able to banish [...]

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