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Tag Archive | "Libido"

Turns Out There IS Such a Thing as Too Many Orgasms

Wednesday, December 9, 2009


photos via BeautifulAgony.com When we first saw the headlines this past week about a woman who has 300 orgasms a day finally meeting the man of her dreams — i.e. a man who could keep up with her libido — we assumed the story would be about Marrena Lindberg, whom we interviewed last year for [...]

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Study: Housework Increases Sex No Matter Who Mops

Monday, October 26, 2009


photo from Porn for Women It’s long been a given in the sex advice biz that dudes who break out the vacuum cleaner every once in a while are more likely to get laid. We typically fight such Men-are-from-Mars-Women-are-from-Venus stereotypes, but we’ve heard too much anecdotal evidence to ignore this one. It’s not that watching [...]

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10 Good Reasons Why Women Have Sex

Friday, September 11, 2009


Why Women Have Sex by Cindy Meston and David Buss is on sale now It seems like everyone right now is talking about that new book Why Women Have Sex, by Cindy Meston and David Buss. Apparently lots of women reported having sex to keep the peace, to stave off boredom, to relieve a headache, [...]

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In Sleep vs. Sex Battle, the Winner is…Mattresses, Pills and PDAs

Thursday, August 20, 2009


photo by audreyjm529 It seems like every few years, someone comes out with a study about what percentage of the population would choose a good night’s sleep over sex. The studies are usually sponsored by a mattress company, or a pharmaceutical firm developing non-addictive (riiiiight) sleeping pills, or — as in the most recent case [...]

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Confession: Weight Gain Killed My Sex Life

Wednesday, August 5, 2009


photo by klynslis Our contributor is a student at an East coast university. And that‚Äôs all she‚Äôs willing to say. Except this‚Ķ There’s something about the heat of the summer sun that makes everyone a little more frisky, a little more excited, a little more promiscuous — it’s the season of bathing suits, little clothing, [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Have Zero Sex Drive. What’s Wrong with Me?

Wednesday, May 13, 2009


photo by Just_SallyRye Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 23-year old woman in a relationship with a wonderful guy — we’re celebrating two years together this month. We’re pretty serious about each other, but we have a serious hangup:¬† I have very little sex drive.¬† I’m not sure if he’s got an average drive or [...]

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Does Your Sex Life Need a Stimulus Package?

Thursday, March 12, 2009

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Is the recession affecting your sex life at all? ( surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Poll: What’s Your Ultimate Dealbreaker?

Tuesday, February 3, 2009


<a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1336030/” >What would be the biggest relationship deal-breaker for you…?</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> surveys</a>)</span> If you can’t see the poll, click here to take it.

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What Do Women Want? Yes.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009


Check out the NYTimes Magazine getting all hot & heavy with their article pics! That famous Freud quote “What do women want?” is just like the question “How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Roll Pop?” because the answer’s the same: “The world may never know.” That’s pretty [...]

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Yogis Do It Mindfully

Monday, January 5, 2009


photo by Daniel Sandoval Okay, so we know we’re fond of saying that our sex advice requires neither a yoga mat nor a devotion to ’90s Sting. It’s not that we have anything against yogis, we just think that the ability to wrap one’s legs around one’s head isn’t necessarily the answer to everyone’s sex [...]

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