photo by Anika Malone Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do some men — single, married, in relationships, straight, gay, bisexual, etc. — deny masturbating?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Are you serious? I’ve never [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, August 18, 2010
photo by smulligannn I reckon that as well as part of the sexuality pie we share with our partners, we all still have slices that belong to us as an individual. Perhaps if you feel his personal slice is way outweighing the slice you’re sharing as a couple, just have a good old wank yourself! [...]
Continue reading...Friday, August 13, 2010
photo by Brandon Baunach Dear Em & Lo, I have the opposite problem of last week’s advice seeker: My boyfriend is more than willing to go down on me, but I have a very hard time having an orgasm from it. I know it frustrates him that I don’t orgasm every time (or even most [...]
Continue reading...Tuesday, August 10, 2010
photo by Tavallai Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If he masturbates more often than he has (or wants) sex with me, his wife, should I be worried?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Mark Luczak): I realize that some of my [...]
Continue reading...Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“Are guys intimidated by a woman who masturbates regularly? What if she masturbates more than he does?” Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): If you’re intimidated by your partner masturbating, whether it be more or less than you, you’re a crappy partner. As long [...]
Continue reading...Friday, March 5, 2010
photo via beautifulagony.com Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 22-year-old woman who has only become sexually active over the last six months or so. I’m enjoying myself and being safe, but it’s starting to annoy me that I can’t have an orgasm without a vibrator. This really bothered my last boyfriend, which of course made [...]
Continue reading...Wednesday, December 2, 2009
photo by our “wise guy” Figleaf I have the privilege of teaching sex ed to my sixth graders. However, there are so many limitations to what I can tell my kids. It can be SO frustrating. I am deeply spiritual and a devout Christian but I have no intention of forcing my beliefs on my [...]
Continue reading...Tuesday, November 17, 2009
photo by voxefx Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Does every guy see a woman and immediately assess whether or not he’d want to have sex with her? And if he would want to have sex with her, does that mean she automatically becomes a part of his [...]
Continue reading...Thursday, October 1, 2009
Ladies, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(trends) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
Continue reading...Thursday, October 1, 2009
Men, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
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Tuesday, September 28, 2010
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