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Tag Archive | "Masturbation"

Wise Guys – Are Men Intimidated by a Woman Who Masturbates Regularly?

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“Are guys intimidated by a woman who masturbates regularly? What if she masturbates more than he does?” Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): If you‚Äôre intimidated by your partner masturbating, whether it be more or less than you, you‚Äôre a crappy partner.¬† As long [...]

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10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator

Friday, March 5, 2010

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photo via beautifulagony.com Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 22-year-old woman who has only become sexually active over the last six months or so. I’m enjoying myself and being safe, but it’s starting to annoy me that I can’t have an orgasm without a vibrator. This really bothered my last boyfriend, which of course made [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Sex Ed Teacher Blues

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

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photo by our “wise guy” Figleaf I have the privilege of teaching sex ed to my sixth graders.¬† However, there are so many limitations to what I can tell my kids.¬† It can be SO frustrating.¬† I am deeply spiritual and a devout Christian but I have no intention of forcing my beliefs on my [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Imagine Sex with Every Woman?

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

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photo by voxefx Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Does every guy see a woman and immediately assess whether or not he’d want to have sex with her? And if he would want to have sex with her, does that mean she automatically becomes a part of his [...]

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Ladies-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?

Thursday, October 1, 2009

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Ladies, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(trends) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Men-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?

Thursday, October 1, 2009

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Men, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Dear Em & Lo: Is It Wrong to Masturbate More Than You Have Sex with Your Partner?

Friday, September 25, 2009

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photo by slushpup Dear Em & Lo, When living with a man, is it a healthy sexual relationship if you masturbate (alone) more than you have sex together? He seems not interested during the week so I take care of my own needs. What can I do? – Diddley

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Happy Birthday, Betty Dodson!

Monday, August 24, 2009

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There isn’t better proof that an active, healthy, happy sex life keeps you looking young and vibrant than Betty Dodson, the great American sex educator who basically invented sex-positive feminism and almost single-handedly made masturbation okay for women. She turns 80 today — and she doesn’t look a day over 60! She’s in the process [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Vibrator Doesn’t Kiss or Cuddle

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

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photo by Ciaran_McGuiggan Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 24-year-old woman who hasn’t had sex in 4 years, 10 months, 15 days, 5 hours, 51 minutes…well, you get the idea. I had my first boyfriend when I was twenty and it lasted for four months. He was my first sexual partner, and as of today, [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Choose Masturbation Over Sex?

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

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photo by slushpup Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Do guys ever choose masturbation over sex? If so, why?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure. Plenty of times. Sometimes my wife isn’t around and I don’t really feel like waiting. Or sometimes she is around but really tired, or [...]

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