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Tag Archive | "Masturbation"

Wise Guys: Why Do Men Deny Masturbating?

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

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photo by Anika Malone Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do some men — single, married, in relationships, straight, gay, bisexual, etc. — deny masturbating?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Are you serious? I’ve never [...]

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Comment of the Week: Save a Piece of the Sex Pie for Yourself

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

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photo by smulligannn I reckon that as well as part of the sexuality pie we share with our partners, we all still have slices that belong to us as an individual. Perhaps if you feel his personal slice is way outweighing the slice you’re sharing as a couple, just have a good old wank yourself! [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, My Boyfriend Can’t Give Me an Orgasm

Friday, August 13, 2010

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photo by Brandon Baunach Dear Em & Lo, I have the opposite problem of last week’s advice seeker: My boyfriend is more than willing to go down on me, but I have a very hard time having an orgasm from it. I know it frustrates him that I don’t orgasm every time (or even most [...]

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Wise Guys – Should I Worry If He Masturbates More Than We Have Sex?

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

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photo by Tavallai Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If he masturbates more often than he has (or wants) sex with me, his wife, should I be worried?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Mark Luczak): I realize that some of my [...]

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Wise Guys – Are Men Intimidated by a Woman Who Masturbates Regularly?

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“Are guys intimidated by a woman who masturbates regularly? What if she masturbates more than he does?” Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): If you‚Äôre intimidated by your partner masturbating, whether it be more or less than you, you‚Äôre a crappy partner.¬† As long [...]

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10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator

Friday, March 5, 2010

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photo via beautifulagony.com Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 22-year-old woman who has only become sexually active over the last six months or so. I’m enjoying myself and being safe, but it’s starting to annoy me that I can’t have an orgasm without a vibrator. This really bothered my last boyfriend, which of course made [...]

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Comment of the Week: The Sex Ed Teacher Blues

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

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photo by our “wise guy” Figleaf I have the privilege of teaching sex ed to my sixth graders.¬† However, there are so many limitations to what I can tell my kids.¬† It can be SO frustrating.¬† I am deeply spiritual and a devout Christian but I have no intention of forcing my beliefs on my [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Imagine Sex with Every Woman?

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

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photo by voxefx Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Does every guy see a woman and immediately assess whether or not he’d want to have sex with her? And if he would want to have sex with her, does that mean she automatically becomes a part of his [...]

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Ladies-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?

Thursday, October 1, 2009

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Ladies, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(trends) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Men-Only Poll: Who Do You Think About During Self-Love?

Thursday, October 1, 2009

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Men, who are you most likely to fantasize about when you masturbate?(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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