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Dear Em & Lo: Is It Wrong to Masturbate More Than You Have Sex with Your Partner?

Friday, September 25, 2009

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photo by slushpup Dear Em & Lo, When living with a man, is it a healthy sexual relationship if you masturbate (alone) more than you have sex together? He seems not interested during the week so I take care of my own needs. What can I do? – Diddley

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Happy Birthday, Betty Dodson!

Monday, August 24, 2009

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There isn’t better proof that an active, healthy, happy sex life keeps you looking young and vibrant than Betty Dodson, the great American sex educator who basically invented sex-positive feminism and almost single-handedly made masturbation okay for women. She turns 80 today — and she doesn’t look a day over 60! She’s in the process [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Vibrator Doesn’t Kiss or Cuddle

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

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photo by Ciaran_McGuiggan Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 24-year-old woman who hasn’t had sex in 4 years, 10 months, 15 days, 5 hours, 51 minutes…well, you get the idea. I had my first boyfriend when I was twenty and it lasted for four months. He was my first sexual partner, and as of today, [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Choose Masturbation Over Sex?

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

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photo by slushpup Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Do guys ever choose masturbation over sex? If so, why?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure. Plenty of times. Sometimes my wife isn’t around and I don’t really feel like waiting. Or sometimes she is around but really tired, or [...]

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15 Reasons Why Everyone Should Masturbate

Thursday, April 30, 2009

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photo by slushpup Self-love won’t cure swine flu, but that’s pretty much the only shortcoming we can think of: Getting a grip on yourself helps teach you the pattern of your own sexual response: What you like, what you don’t like, and what you hate more than anything else in the whole wide world. Friggin’ [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Lead a Full Life Without Sex?

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

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photo by Ingorr Dear Em & Lo, I’m 34 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I was molested as a child and raped as an adult. I’ve never had consensual sex. Yet I have intensely sexual dreams. I’ve had years of counseling, but the fear of having a sexual relationship remains. I isolate myself from [...]

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Ladies Only: When Was Your First Solo O?

Thursday, April 2, 2009

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Ladies, how old were you when you had your first orgasm via masturbation? ( surveys) Ladies, if you can’t see the poll, click here to take it. Guys, to take the same poll for gentlemen only, click here.

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Guys Only: When Was Your First Solo O?

Thursday, April 2, 2009

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<a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1442339/” >Gentlemen, how old were you when you had your first orgasm via masturbation?</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> surveys</a>)</span> Guys, if you can’t see the poll, click here to take it. Ladies, to take the same poll for gals only, click here.

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Dear Em & Lo: I Miss My Army Husband. So Does My Libido.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

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Dear Em & Lo, I am a new army wife having a very difficult time. The lack of intimacy and sex is much harder than I had thought it would be. My usual sex drive had gone from very high to pretty low over the last year, so I didn’t think the lack of sex [...]

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Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About When They Fantasize?

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

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photo by albany_tim Advice from three of our guy friends. A few weeks ago, one woman wanted to know “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” In his response, Max (one of our Single Straight Guys) said, “Trust me: You don’t want to do the things that we’re [...]

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