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Tag Archive | "Men vs. Women"

Study Shows Active Parenting Reduces Testosterone in Men

Thursday, September 15, 2011


Guy A: How are things going with your new baby? Guy B: Oh, you know, that’s pretty much Amy’s deal. We swear to god, this is an exact transcript of a conversation that took place between a friend of ours and one of his college buddies. Sure, it’s an extreme example, but it’s not an [...]

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Wise Guys: Who Has to Work Harder During Sex, Men or Women?

Tuesday, September 13, 2011


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EM & LO‘s guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Who has to work harder during sex: men or women? Why?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): I know for a fact men have to work harder just to have sex in the first place. As for who [...]

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New Research Shows We Still Have No F-ing Clue About the Female Orgasm

Friday, September 9, 2011


photo via flickr The female orgasm is a mystery, and not just in that how-the-hell-can-I-make-my-girlfriend-climax kind of way. Scientists just can’t seem to figure out what it’s there for. The most recent theory — popularized in the 2005 book The Case of the Female Orgasm — was that it was just an accidental evolutionary by-product [...]

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Comment of the Week: Stop the Presses! Women Have Libidos!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

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photo by Ranjit Laxman Photography We got a lot of thoughtful, interesting responses to the Wise Guys column “What If Her Libido Is Higher Than His?” that yes, many women do have higher libidos than men and no, they’re not nymphos. We can’t post them all, so just go read the comments section. Below is [...]

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Wise Guys: What If Her Libido Is Higher Than His?

Tuesday, August 9, 2011


Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What would most guys think about dating a woman whose sex drive was higher than his? Would it be awesome? Annoying? Lead to insecurities? Make you think less (or more) of her? All of the above?” To ask the guys your own [...]

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Comment of the Week: More on the Orgasm Gap

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

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image from nDevilTV Clandestine, commenting on a study that showed women orgasm about 80% as often as men do in close relationships but only 32% as often in first hookups: I’d suggest that a broader explanation [for the orgasm gap] may be that our definition of sex is very intercourse-focused, and we conventionally define sex [...]

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How to Close the Orgasm Gap

Thursday, July 28, 2011


image from nDevilTV It’s not exactly rocket science to say that men orgasm more often than women when they have sex with each other. Now, if you had to guess, what do you think happens to this orgasm gap as a relationship progresses from casual hookup to repeated hookup to serious commitment? Yep, the orgasm [...]

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Wise Guys: Is Manscaping Required These Days?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011


photo by Vladimir Istomin Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is manscaping automatically required these days for men under a certain age? And if so, what does this entail exactly?” Straight Committed Guy (Johnny): Without knowing exactly what age you mean, or whether I fall into this age [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Email Porn Clips to Friends?

Tuesday, July 12, 2011


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do so many guys forward really gross gonzo porn clips around to their friends? Why do they find it funny instead of disgusting or offensive or just plain sad?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. [...]

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Wise Guys: Should I Be Threatened by My Girlfriend’s Gay Male Bedmate?

Wednesday, July 6, 2011


photo by aralbalkan Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight man asks, “A girl I am dating has a gay best friend. He is coming to stay with her for a few weeks and they are sharing the same bed. While I know he is definitely gay, it still makes me [...]

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