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Tag Archive | "Monogamy"

2014: Year of the Vanilla Revolution?

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

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Image via Flickr | Sponsored Post The Fifty Shades of Grey movie may not be scheduled for release until February 13, 2015, but according to LELO, the kinky sex revolution is already waning. According to sales figures of LELO toys, tracked across their top 20 leading markets, sales of BDSM accessories such as whips and teasers reached [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Cheated on My Boyfriend And Don’t Regret It

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

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Dear Em & Lo, So I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years, going on 9. We have been together since high school and are now in our mid twenties. I love him very much and used to see myself spending the rest of my life with him up until just a [...]

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Comment of the Week: Monogamish Is the Future

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

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Franklin Veaux‚Äôs¬†Map of Non-Monogamy This week’s Comment of the Week by AlanK is a response to last week’s Comment of the Week called “9 Reasons Why Women Cheat” by ¬†Johnny, which was a response to the post “Why Women Cheat — A Married Man Goes Undercover”: Things wear out; the tires on your car wear [...]

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Are Women Even Less Naturally Monogamous Than Men?

Thursday, August 29, 2013

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Daniel Bergner is one of our favorite writers on the topic of sex. A few years back he wrote the awesome book The Other Side of Desire, which we raved about at the time, and then shortly after he wrote a cover story about female desire for the New York Times magazine, which we also [...]

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Can You Beat the Urge to Stray with One Freebie a Year?

Thursday, August 1, 2013

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photo via flickr “If I tell my child, ‚ÄėNo pizza, no pizza, no pizza,‚Äô what does he want more than anything Pizza!‚ÄĚ And so it is with her husband and sex, claims Russian pop star Masha Lopatova. She is married to Andrei Kirilenko, a basketball player for the Brooklyn Nets — and she has told [...]

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5 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Orgasms

Thursday, July 18, 2013

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At least half the advice questions we receive from readers are about orgasms, and we‚Äôve been dishing about orgasms for almost fifteen years, but even we are constantly learning new things about how orgasms work. Here are five orgasm tidbits you probably don‚Äôt know… 1. Men Fake, Too Sure, women fake orgasms sometimes — we [...]

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Comment of the Week: How You Know He’s “The One”

Friday, July 12, 2013

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Reader MarcieT said the following in response to our post “Your Call: How Do I Know If He’s ‘The One’?”¬†What would you add to this list? (Um, sexual compatibility, anyone?) What would you not include? (Maybe you like watching TV on your own…) You know he‚Äôs “The One” when: You miss having him beside you [...]

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Say “I Do” to Hot Monogamy with LELO’s Bridal Pleasure Set

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

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sponsored post Something old, something new, something borrowed, and something… really blue. LELO’s Bridal Pleasure Set — gorgeously packaged in wedding white, naturally — is here to spice up this year’s wedding season. It’s a saucy and unique gift idea for a bridal shower, bachelorette party, or even a surprise wedding gift — trust us, [...]

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Why Public Proposals Are a Bad Idea

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

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If you’re thinking about proposing to your partner in public, you might want to browse the stories on Quora.com first. If you haven’t been sucked into Quora.com yet, it’s an addictive awesome time-suck (okay, so maybe you shouldn’t check it out then!), where real people answer questions about everything from “What is the nicest thing [...]

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How One Couple Gets Closer to Go Further… In Bed (Part 1 of 2)

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

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sponsored post ***Originally Posted on May 2nd, 2013*** Introducing Our “Get Closer Go Further” Project We’re thrilled to team up with Durex¬†for this¬†“Get Closer to Go Further”¬†project, which encourages committed couples to do just that: build intimacy in order to explore more sexual territories together. And when we say “go further,” we’re not just talking [...]

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