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Tag Archive | "Online Dating"

The New Nerve Personals

Friday, January 6, 2012

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It seems like just yesterday the two of us were out on the fire escape of the¬†Nerve.com¬†office, smoking (smoking!) and coming up with the profile questions for the original Nerve Personals (you may remember “______ is sexy; ______ is sexier”). The Nerve Personals had a meteoric rise, signing up affiliate partners like Salon and The [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Online Crush Sucks My Energy Like a Psychic Vampire

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

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photo by Shawn Allen Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, the EMandLO.com dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: So in real life there is this guy that I’m currently talking to on the internet. He seems [...]

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Top 10 Reasons Why Wednesdays Are the Best Night to Get Laid

Friday, June 17, 2011

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photo via flickr In a recent article for the New York Times, statistician Nate Silver hooked up with OkCupid’s Nate Rudder to determine which day of the week is best to meet someone at a bar. They came up with something called the “sexual availability index,” and found that you’re most likely to get laid [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Get in Touch with Past Flames?

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

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photo by Asthma Helper Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,”Why do guys get back in touch with old flames? Booty call? Rekindle the romance? To prove they’re over the woman? Just to say hi? Just got dumped and need an ego boost?” Straight Married Guy (James Glazebrook): At [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Spot Dating-Site Spam on Craigslist

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

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Steven, commenting on the post “Dating on Craigslist Is a Crap Shoot” CL is Crap. Period. Folks, 99% of what you read in [their] personal sections–including under ‘Platonic’–is spam from dating site affiliates.¬† And here’s the way to spot them: 1) No contractions or contractions without apostrophes, e.g., ‘I am,’ or ‘Im,’ etc. 2) No [...]

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Your Call: Is My Cougar Relationship Doomed?

Friday, May 6, 2011

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photo by Harlequeen We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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New York City Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

Thursday, April 21, 2011

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Ariel Sabar’s new book, Heart of the City: Nine Stories of Love and Serendipity on the Streets of New York, follows couples from the 1940s to the present whose matchmaker was New York City. We chatted with him about location-location-location — and what it means for love. EM & LO: What got you first interested [...]

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How to Survive a Blind Date in 6 Easy Steps

Thursday, February 24, 2011

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photo by paris_corrupted The blind date is alive and well, thanks to online dating and well-intentioned grandmothers. But what if your blind date turns out to be a loud talker with halitosis and a goiter? Given the odds, it’s amazing that otherwise intelligent beings ever agree to a blind date. Call it hope triumphing over [...]

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Scientifically Proven First-Date Questions

Monday, February 14, 2011

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image via OKTrends Regular readers of this blog will know that we are mildly obsessed with the dating research blog OKTrends (it’s attached to the dating site OKCupid) — check out our past coverage of OKTrends on the myth of gay evangelism, the (consistent, predictable) way we lie online, misconceptions about¬†online profile photos, and the [...]

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Dubious iPhone App of the Week

Monday, November 29, 2010

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Fake Calls is an iPhone app that lets you receive a fake call on your phone — you can either tap the icon on your home screen (discreetly labeled FC) and your phone will ring in ten seconds, or else you can schedule a call in advance. Your phone will look and sound exactly like [...]

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