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Tag Archive | "Oral Sex"

Comment of the Week: Love a Man As Is

Thursday, November 8, 2012


photo via Flickr This comment from Mactek in response to the post “Wise Guys: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?” recalls our favorite comment from two weeks ago titled “Love a Woman As Is.” Hey, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! I want a woman who [...]

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Your Call: How Do You Give Your Partner Advice About Oral?

Tuesday, October 30, 2012


We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.¬† I¬† I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t [...]

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Comment of the Week: How I Learned to Enjoy Giving Blowjobs

Wednesday, September 5, 2012


photo via flickr Reader Female said the following in response to our oldie-but-goodie post, “Wise Guys: What Makes a Great BJ?” I never did blowjobs, I found them to be degrading to women, especially when referred to as ‚Äúgobbies‚ÄĚ — I suppose it‚Äôs that image of the town bikes handing them out at parties that [...]

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What’s a Nice Way to Give Directions in Bed?

Wednesday, August 15, 2012


photo via flickr Hey readers, got your own question for us? Submit it here. We may not answer them all, but we read every one, and we care, we really do. Dear Em & Lo, I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t orgasm through sex. ¬†We are a relatively new couple, and [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: On Average, How Often Do BJs Occur in Relationships?

Wednesday, May 9, 2012


photo by Public Domain Photos Dear Em & Lo, What is the average number of BJ’s a guy in a relationship receives? (FYI: I’m a straight guy.) – Joe Blow Dear Joe, The actual average, even the more accurate median number (if they were somehow knowable, which they’re not) would be totally misleading, because the [...]

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Comment of the Week: What I’ve Learned in 50 Years of Oral Sex

Thursday, February 23, 2012


photo via flickr In response to the post “How Do I Tell My BF He Sucks at Oral?” reader Dr Mountbank wrote the following (to massive acclaim from his fellow posters): I‚Äôm an Old Guy, 70 to be exact. I have over 50 years of experience going down on women, and I can say without [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: How Do I Tell My BF He Sucks at Oral?

Wednesday, January 4, 2012


photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I’m 21, he’s 28. He’s the only person to ever perform oral sex on me, so while I have no one to compare him too, I know that he is bad at oral sex. He pushes his entire face on [...]

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5 Ways to Reconceptualize SEX

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

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photo via Flickr We’ve said it before, we’ll say it again: Sex is not intercourse. So stop using the two words interchangeably! When we as a society do this over and over again, it gets into the collective unconscious and starts limiting how we imagine the possibilities of pleasure, especially for women. A majority of [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Is a Post-Toothpaste Tingly Oral Session Safe?

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

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photo by sahxic Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, Lately my manpanion has been going down on me at night following teethbrushing. Needless to [...]

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Oral Sex Tips to Use on Her

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

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photo via Flickr Yesterday we reviewed the blow job basics. Today, it’s time for your cunnilingus refresher course. Like getting in shape or getting rich, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to going downtown on her. What worked on your last girlfriend may not work on your current one; what worked on your current [...]

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