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Tag Archive | "Orgasm"

Why Women Cry After Sex

Friday, August 29, 2014


photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been in a serious, committed relationship with a gorgeous woman for almost a year. We first met as friends and then somehow found ourselves being more than friends after 9 months or so. During that time, we learned much about what makes the other tick. We have [...]

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4 New Routes to Your Orgasm

Wednesday, July 23, 2014


photo via Flickr Most people have that one, fail-safe way that gets them from point A to point O quickly and directly, scenic lookout points be damned! And when you’re busy or tired (read: every minute of every day), it’s easy (and understandable) to resort to that surefire route on the rare occasion you do [...]

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10 Steps to Crossing the Finishing Line in Bed Tonight

Friday, June 6, 2014


One of the most common questions we receive from women is, “How can I orgasm in bed with my partner?” We hear some version of this question at least once a week. The really demanding women want to know how to orgasm simultaneously during penetration, every time. If this is you, then sorry, you’re out [...]

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Comment of the Week: Don’t Make Sex So Goal-Oriented

Thursday, September 5, 2013


photo via Flickr We love all our sage, eloquent commenters! Like Bryan responding to our recent Your Call post, “My Boyfriend Puts Too Much Pressure On My Orgasm“: My guess is that you are both putting entirely too much pressure on your sexual response. The same thing happens to men who suffer from psychological ED. [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Wife Orgasms with Someone Else

Thursday, May 16, 2013


photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: In the past couple of days I have had weird dreams [...]

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Your Call: My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm

Thursday, September 6, 2012


We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Hi, I am 25 and been with my husband for 8 [...]

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Dr. Kate’s Female Sexual Dysfunction Series: ORGASM PROBLEMS (Pt 4 of 5)

Thursday, January 20, 2011


All this month Dr. Kate, an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City, is dedicating her column on EMandLO.com to the topic female sexual dysfunction, since that’s what she seems to get the most inquiries about. Click here for all the installments of her five part series being published every [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate, Can You Affect the Sex of Your Baby?

Wednesday, September 1, 2010


photo by gniliep Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here once a week. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, When trying to conceive, are there things you can do to try to tip the [...]

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Wise Guys – What Do You Think of the “Woman Comes First” Expectation?

Tuesday, August 3, 2010


hat from Zazzle.com Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,”What do guys think of the ‘women come first’ expectation in bed? Embrace it? Hate it? And why?“ Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): We think it’s great – especially when there are no women in bed! Kidding aside, does every [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa – I Can’t Orgasm, What’s Wrong with Me?

Thursday, June 10, 2010


Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. I’ve never been able to have an orgasm when I have sex.  Is something wrong with me?  I try really [...]

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