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Tag Archive | "Penises"

Dear Em & Lo: I’m a Man, Should I Shave Down There?

Wednesday, April 10, 2013


photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I came across your site as I am trying to prepare for ¬†my wedding night and my first time with my wife. I know nowadays it’s normal for women to shave/wax around the vagina to look clean, [...]

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L Is for Love Ring

Friday, April 5, 2013

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The Oden 2 by LELO The following is from our very own naughty dictionary,¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink.¬†Bolded words signify individual entries that appear elsewhere in the A-to-Z section of the book. Anything with a tie icon¬†¬†indicates an activity or prop mentioned in the¬†Fifty Shades¬†series (symbolic of the famous woven tie¬†Christian [...]

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Comment of the Week: How I Learned My Penis Was Normal

Wednesday, March 27, 2013


Our long-time and wise-as-all-get-out reader Figleaf said the following in response to our post, “How (and Why) to Have Sex with the Lights On”: I learned how erect penises are “supposed” to look from a very rough sketch in a “sex education” book I stumbled across. My penis didn’t look like that. At all! At [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Handle a Husband Who Doesn’t Want Sex

Wednesday, March 13, 2013


image via Wiki Media Reader K said the following in response to the post, “Your Call: My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex with Me.” I am dealing with some of the same issues. My husband hardly ever wants to have sex. He used to blame it on my weight gain, the house is messy, he‚Äôs [...]

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Comment of the Week: Learn to Work with What You’ve Got

Wednesday, March 6, 2013


photo via Flickr Sweetness¬†is a woman after our own hearts: Size does matter but it’s all relative, Insert tab A into slot B, what works for one person may not work for another… It’s like she’s transcribing right out of one of our sex manuals! Whether she’s a kindred spirit, a super fan, or a [...]

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Penis Enlargement: Why It’s One Big Ball of DON’T

Tuesday, February 12, 2013


We answered a reader’s advice question on small penises almost four years ago and it’s still the most popular article on our site! 591 comments and counting! We can’t tell you how much letters we get from guys asking how they can safely increase the size of their penis. So we shouldn’t have been too [...]

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Comment of the Week: Small Sexy Bits Are Lovable

Thursday, January 24, 2013


photo via Flickr Christy, commenting on our most popular post,¬†”My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me“: I personally am very thin and not very curvy. Since early in my life, I have experienced the cruelty of people judging someone based on physique. Mine being more obvious and public than the [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Does a “Wet Spot” in His Boxers Mean He Cheated?

Tuesday, January 15, 2013


photo via Wiki Commons Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, Last night my boyfriend went out with a bunch of his friends, including his ex. Their friend group is known to engage in apparently meaningless sexual activities with one another other on nights out. At around [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Have Sex with a Small Penis

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

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photo via Flickr Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.”¬†If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place: Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding [...]

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Size Matters… The Size of Your Vocabulary, That Is

Wednesday, January 2, 2013


photo via flickr In response to a less than eloquent (though well intentioned) comment in the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis,” reader Dallas said the following. Thank you, Dallas, for so succinctly reminding readers everywhere that a large vocabulary can take you places a large penis never will. And we don’t just [...]

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