Penises
Confessions
Comment of the Week: How to Have Sex with a Small Penis

photo via Flickr Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.” If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place: Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding […]

Confessions
Size Matters… The Size of Your Vocabulary, That Is

photo via flickr In response to a less than eloquent (though well intentioned) comment in the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis,” reader Dallas said the following. Thank you, Dallas, for so succinctly reminding readers everywhere that a large vocabulary can take you places a large penis never will. And we don’t just […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Have a Detachable Penis

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have realized that I have a been having a […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is a Saucy Love Ring a Good Gift for a Dude?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Would a really nice love ring (a.k.a. c*ck ring) be an appropriate holiday gift for a woman’s new sex partner, boyfriend or husband?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Single Straight Guy (Scott Phrenetik): Definitely! I mean, you’re pretty much giving him the […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Love a Man As Is

This comment from Mactek in response to the post “Wise Guys: If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?” recalls our favorite comment from two weeks ago titled “Love a Woman As Is.” Hey, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander! I want a woman who loves, appreciates, adores, […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: Will a Big Toy Make My Boyfriend Seem Too Small?

Elise 2 by Lelo Dear Em & Lo, I want to buy a sex toy but I am concerned that the size will affect how I will have sex with my boyfriend. I know that the intimacy of sex will never be replaced, but I would rather not jeopardize the physical satisfaction I get from […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Chopped Off My Willy in the Tub

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Well I just had a very disturbing […]

Personal Essays
Comment of the Week: The Older Men Get, the Less They Talk Sex w/Friends

This week, in response to the post “Wise Guys: Do Men Know Whether Their Male Friends Are Circumcised?” reader Johnny said: The older men get, the less we discuss sex with each other. Whether it’s because we’re more mature, we’re pretending we’re more mature, or because we’re more experienced and there are fewer questions and […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Do Men Know Whether Their Male Friends Are Circumcised?

photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys ever discuss circumcision with each other? Do you tend to know whether your guy friends are circumcised or not?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.   Gay Single Guy (Justin Huang): Gross. I don’t know whether any of my […]

News
KEGEL WEEK: Contest – Write a Kegels Slogan, Win a Prize!

THIS CONTEST IS CLOSED: SEE WHO WON HERE! In honor of Kegel Week, we’d like you to come up with a slogan for pelvic floor health — something that would be catchy on a bumper sticker or a t-shirt. Yes, it is possible! Think “I’m Kegeling right now” or “iKegel” or “Kegel is German for good […]

What's Up Doc?
KEGEL WEEK: Dear Dr. Joe, How Can I Improve the Strength of My Erection?

Dear Dr. Joe, My erection isn’t at as high an angle as it once was (it’s a little droopier). Is there anything I can do to get that standing-at-attention look back? — Droopy Dog Dear D.D., The firmness of your erection is based upon a number of factors -– nerve stimulation, blood supply, and psychological […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: How to Do Kegels (for HIM)

Yesterday we went over the anatomy of your genital muscles and introduced you to the man who invented Kegels. Today, gentlemen, we instruct you on how to actually do the strengthening exercises. The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: KEGELS FOR HIM Regular kegel exercises are a way to bond with […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: How To Do Kegels (for HER)

  Yesterday we went over the anatomy of your genital muscles and introduced you to the man who invented Kegels. Today, we instruct you, ladies, on how to actually do the strengthening exercises. (Guys, you’re up next.) The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: KEGELS FOR HER Not only do defined […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: An Introduction to Your Pelvic Floor Muscles (Meet Mr. Kegel)

  The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: We don’t care if you’ve never been to a gym in your life; you simply must work out your pelvic muscles if you want to consider yourself sexually fit. Don’t worry, you won’t break a sweat. You can even start working them […]

Polls
KEGEL WEEK: Men-Only Poll — What Do You Know About Kegels?

Men, what do you know about Kegel exercises? RELATED ARTICLES FROM EMandLO.com Ladies-Only Poll: How Often Do You Kegel? Dear Dr. Joe, How Do I Strengthen My Erection? Everything You Wanted to Know About Kegels But Were Too Lazy to Ask How to Do Kegels (for HER) Kegels for HIM Dear Dr. Vanessa, What’s Up […]

News
It’s KEGEL WEEK on EMandLO.com!

  We’re dedicating this entire week to the love, care and workout of your pelvic floor muscles — the body parts of both men and women that, if healthy and strong, can really turn your sexual experience up to 11 with better blood flow, increased libido, more sensation and more intense orgasms. You know, the […]