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Tag Archive | "Porn"

Naked News: Why Normal-Looking Porn Stars Are a Thret

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

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photo via James Deen Blog Why porn that women actually like (i.e. with normal looking guys like James Dean, above)¬†makes men so uncomfortable. You think you have a type when it comes to online dating, but according to researchers you actually don’t. The story of J. Edgar Hoover’s from someone who knows: the godson of [...]

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Wise Guys: Can a Woman Get Her Man to Quit Porn?

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Can a woman ever get her man to quit porn?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Engaged Guy (Mark Luczak): There are probably a lot of eventual branches to this question, depending on the reasoning [...]

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Comment of the Week: Don’t Hide Your Porn Habit

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

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photo via flickr I second the importance of ethical porn consumption and highly recommend Abby Winters, which is woman-owned and operated. It’s definitely better to bring up the topic of porn early on in a relationship, than to wait for it to come out when you get caught. If you hide it, it will seem [...]

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How to Understand His Porn Habit

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

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photo via flickr Is masturbating to porn cheating? Readers are always asking us this question, and the masturbator in question is pretty much always a man. Sometimes his female partner writes to us, asking if she’s right to feel cheated on. Other times the man himself writes to us, asking why his partner can’t understand [...]

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The Media’s Pornification of Women

Friday, August 26, 2011

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Here’s¬†a fascinating but not all that surprising study from the University of Buffalo: they recently analyzed more than 1,000 images of men and women on Rolling Stone covers over the course of 43 years (they chose Rolling Stone since it’s a well-established, pop-culture media outlet) and found the following: In the 1960s, 11 percent of [...]

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Porn for Women (Must Love Dogs)

Friday, July 15, 2011

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photo via Men and Their Dogs Don’t worry, no pets were harmed (or diddled) in the making of this porn. The Men and Their Dogs blog is exactly what it sounds like: photos of men with their dogs — making kissy faces, taking bubble baths together, or just being emo-artsy. Kind of like those Porn [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Email Porn Clips to Friends?

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do so many guys forward really gross gonzo porn clips around to their friends? Why do they find it funny instead of disgusting or offensive or just plain sad?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. [...]

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3D Porn? Yeah, We’ll Get Back to You On That

Friday, June 3, 2011

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Last year Em found herself — don’t ask why — agreeing to see Jackass 3D on opening night in L.A. (On a date night, no less.) In what was either a moment of pure genius commentary on sex and technology — or else just plain jackassery — the movie featured a 3D dildo bazooka fight, [...]

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Your Brain on Porn

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

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photo via Flickr There has always been great debate between sex-positive free-speech porn advocates and anti-porn chicken-little moralists. We’ve always fallen somewhere in the middle: you can’t really legislate desire and fantasy, but at the same time all this porn, like too much fast food, can’t be good for you. An interesting site we’ve found [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About Watching Porn with a Partner?

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do men feel about watching porn with a partner? Is it sexy? High pressure? Awkward? Distracting?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (David Jacobs): Can’t say I watch it much… with the ol’ lady, that [...]

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