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Tag Archive | "Safer Sex"

Masturbation Study Provides Material for the Lovers AND the Haters

Tuesday, August 16, 2011


photo via flickr A recent study published in the journal Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine looked at the masturbation habits of American teenagers (age 14-17) — and the results are likely to please both the self-lovers and those who think that adolescent boys and girls should be forced to sleep in mittens to keep [...]

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Confession: Top 10 Things I Learned from an Anti-Condom Boyfriend

Friday, July 8, 2011


photo by Jenny Lee Silver A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I came into college and out of my first relationship ready to be single and to enjoy my new-found singledom with as many new people as possible. Generally, things went pretty well for me. [...]

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Comment of the Week: More Praise for IUDs

Thursday, July 7, 2011


illus. of Paraguard IUD via Med.unc.edu Figleaf commenting on the post “Give Us an I, Give Us a U, Give Us a D!” It’s been, what, 45 years since sales of the infamous Dalkon Shield IUD were suspended. And virtually everything we “know” about how bad IUDs are comes from… the Dalkon Shield. It’s also [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: When Should I Tell a Partner About Oral Herpes?

Wednesday, May 25, 2011


photo via Flickr Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I am a woman with oral herpes. Is this something I should tell new partners [...]

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Confession: The Top 10 Reasons I Love My IUD

Thursday, April 14, 2011


photo by Liz Henry (laptop included for scale) Our contributor Abby Spector, who is majoring in Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies at Wesleyan University, confesses her love for her IUD: No hormones! But if you like hormones, they offer one with hormones. I don’t need to remember take a pill, change a patch, get another shot, or visit [...]

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Wise Guys – Is Painful Sex an Issue for Some Guys (Like It Is for Some Gals)?

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Considering all the questions the doctors on this site get about women experiencing painful intercourse, I was wondering: do guys ever experience pain during sex?” Straight Single Guy (Max): While the good normally outweighs the bad, I would say that yes, sex [...]

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Dear Dr. Joe: Can Pre-Ejaculate Get a Woman Pregnant?

Wednesday, February 2, 2011


photo by rightee Once a month, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, answers your questions on male sexual health. To ask him your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, Can pre-ejaculate get a woman pregnant? – Leaky Dear Leaky, Pre-ejaculate, or ‚Äúpre-cum,‚ÄĚ as it is commonly known, is the predominantly clear fluid that [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About the Female Condom?

Wednesday, January 19, 2011


Get the female condom at EdenFantasys Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How do men feel about the female condom? And if you’ve never had experience with one, how would you feel if your partner wanted to wear one?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa: Is There a Morning-After Pill for STDs?

Wednesday, December 29, 2010


photo by Janine Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I know that women can use emergency contraception to protect themselves from pregnancy after [...]

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A Mobile App with a Higher Purpose Than iFart

Tuesday, November 30, 2010


STD toys by Giant Microbes If using your mobile phone to simulate fart noises or fake an incoming call to escape a blind date are beneath you, try this one on for size: Researchers in the UK are working on a technology that would allow you to self-diagnose STDs on your phone. If you think [...]

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