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Tag Archive | "Seduction"

Top 10 Do’s and Don’ts of Sensual Massage

Monday, April 25, 2011

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photo by zaphodsotherhead Massage as foreplay is one of those sex tips that “everyone knows” — but few people know well. Be honest, how many times have you actually massaged your partner for longer than a few minutes of shoulder squeezing in front of the TV, or a half-hearted swish over their back with your [...]

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5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness in the Bedroom

Friday, April 22, 2011

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photo by Daniel Sandoval We met Wendy Strgar, founder of the company Good Clean Love, at a conference in Vegas (as one does) a few years back and were instant fans. Good Clean Love makes organic love products — for example, lubes that actually smell good, and aren’t packed with nasty artificial sugars (which can [...]

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Wise Guys: How Can I Get Him to Be More Romantic?

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

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photo by Albany Tim Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How can I get him to be more romantic?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Irad Eyal): The secret I’m about to reveal is guaranteed to make a guy more romantic. It [...]

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Comment of the Week: You Can Leave Your Socks On

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

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photo by David_and_Katarina Re: Your advice to remove your socks before sex: Not if you’re doing me! I looove it when he leaves his socks on: It’s intimate, sweet cute and kinda says: “I want you so bad I can’t really care about my stupid socks!” Yeah, definitely keep your socks on. – matbo, responding [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Treat Her on Valentine’s Day

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

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photo by jamieanne Step 1: Bake something involved. I’m being serious. Find a recipe for something fancy, delicious, and sweet that you think would suit her taste. Does she like dark chocolate? Make truffles. Cupcakes? Find an interesting recipe and make a go for it. This demonstrates that you’re willing to put time and effort [...]

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How to Reject Someone Nicely

Thursday, December 2, 2010

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photo by Brujita Attention is always flattering, but it’s not always reciprocated — blame it on nose hair, pleated pants, wrong gender, that mysterious “chemistry,” etc. While it’s not fair to lead someone on by giving them a fake number (so mean!) or one of those commercial rejection lines (even meaner!), there is such a [...]

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How to Pull Off a Cheesy Pickup Line

Thursday, November 18, 2010

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photo by rick As a general rule, the only pickup line we officially endorse is “Hi, my name is [your name here].” You can then embellish this intro with a situation-specific line such as “Can I buy you a drink?” or “Would you like to dance?” or “Please, go ahead of me, I actually enjoy [...]

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Comments of the Week: Learn to Dance, Men!

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

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photo by tauress We were expecting most of the advice for the “Your Call” post about a guy who doesn’t like it when his girlfriend dances with other guys to focus on jealousy and insecurity issues. But instead you surprised us with some awesome practical advice on taking dance lessons… Why aren’t YOU dancing with [...]

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Your Call: How to Seduce a Woman

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

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We recently published a post on this site called “7 Ways to Seduce a Straight Guy.” And a bunch of you wrote in saying, okay, now tell us how to seduce a woman! So we’re turning this one over to you: Tell us, what’s the best way seduce a woman? FYI, the tips in the [...]

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7 Ways to Seduce a Straight Guy

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

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photo by Ezyan Y. Let’s face it: seducing guys ain’t that hard. A little cleavage and some footsie is pretty much all it takes. The challenge is making your moves really memorable. What follows are seven classic approaches to seduction that you can make your own — and have fun doing it. The Detective: It’s [...]

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