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Tag Archive | "Seduction"

Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Harmless Flirtation?

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a woman asks, “Is there such a thing as harmless flirtation? When does it cross the line? Is the line different for men and women?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure – there are plenty of harmless flirtations. Most flirtations, I think, are harmless. [...]

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Dream Interpretation: A Friend Kisses Me in My Sleep

Monday, August 1, 2011

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photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: So I had a dream about sleeping: somehow a longtime classmate/friend kissed me on the lips and we both just [...]

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Dream Interpretation: I’m Wooed, Kissed and Betrayed on Stage

Monday, July 18, 2011

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photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: Some background: There’s this guy that goes to the same college as me. For the longest time he never showed [...]

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Redefining Foreplay

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

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photo via Flickr Foreplay is not an obligatory two minutes of making out, it’s not purely physical, it’s not a routine that automatically earns you intercourse, it’s not just for women, and it doesn’t always have to be candle-lit (though florescent overhead lights are never seductive). The idea is to free foreplay it’s traditionally narrow definition. [...]

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Top 10 Do’s and Don’ts of Sensual Massage

Monday, April 25, 2011

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photo by zaphodsotherhead Massage as foreplay is one of those sex tips that “everyone knows” — but few people know well. Be honest, how many times have you actually massaged your partner for longer than a few minutes of shoulder squeezing in front of the TV, or a half-hearted swish over their back with your [...]

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5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness in the Bedroom

Friday, April 22, 2011

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photo by Daniel Sandoval We met Wendy Strgar, founder of the company Good Clean Love, at a conference in Vegas (as one does) a few years back and were instant fans. Good Clean Love makes organic love products — for example, lubes that actually smell good, and aren’t packed with nasty artificial sugars (which can [...]

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Wise Guys: How Can I Get Him to Be More Romantic?

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

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photo by Albany Tim Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How can I get him to be more romantic?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Irad Eyal): The secret I’m about to reveal is guaranteed to make a guy more romantic. It [...]

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Comment of the Week: You Can Leave Your Socks On

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

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photo by David_and_Katarina Re: Your advice to remove your socks before sex: Not if you’re doing me! I looove it when he leaves his socks on: It’s intimate, sweet cute and kinda says: “I want you so bad I can’t really care about my stupid socks!” Yeah, definitely keep your socks on. – matbo, responding [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Treat Her on Valentine’s Day

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

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photo by jamieanne Step 1: Bake something involved. I’m being serious. Find a recipe for something fancy, delicious, and sweet that you think would suit her taste. Does she like dark chocolate? Make truffles. Cupcakes? Find an interesting recipe and make a go for it. This demonstrates that you’re willing to put time and effort [...]

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How to Reject Someone Nicely

Thursday, December 2, 2010

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photo by Brujita Attention is always flattering, but it’s not always reciprocated — blame it on nose hair, pleated pants, wrong gender, that mysterious “chemistry,” etc. While it’s not fair to lead someone on by giving them a fake number (so mean!) or one of those commercial rejection lines (even meaner!), there is such a [...]

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