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Tag Archive | "Seduction"

How to Buy (or Accept) a Drink

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

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photo by Southern_Foodways_Alliance Sending a hottie a drink is an old stand-by among pick-up artists. However, this move may be interpreted as “cheesy” rather than “kitschy” in certain irony-free zones — Idaho, perhaps, or Long Island — or by women who are frequently sent “Slippery Nipples.” Thus, we can only recommend this maneuver in good [...]

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What’s Your Favorite Music to Screw to?

Thursday, December 17, 2009

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photo by Orin Zebest Our Top 100 Breakup Songs post continues to be such a favorite on our site that we decided to call on you for more musical suggestions: This time your favorite songs and/or albums to have sex to. Leave your suggestions in the comments section below, and be sure to tell us [...]

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Confession: I’m an Expert Sexter

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

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photo by CoreForce Our contributor¬†is a junior in college. And that’s all she’s willing to say. Except this… Sexting, for the uninitiated, involves sending texts that are sexual in nature. These can range from straightforward (e.g. “I want to fuck you right now”) to graphically descriptive (use your imagination). And, if you’re brave — or, [...]

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Econ 101 for the Pickup Scene

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

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image from nDevilTV Economies of Scale is a “theory of seduction” positing that the more you put yourself out there, the better you‚Äôll do. Duh, you say. But, like the greatest economic theories, it gets better as you unpack it. Say you spy the woman/man of your dreams sipping a green-tea latte at the Soy [...]

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Study: Housework Increases Sex No Matter Who Mops

Monday, October 26, 2009

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photo from Porn for Women It’s long been a given in the sex advice biz that dudes who break out the vacuum cleaner every once in a while are more likely to get laid. We typically fight such Men-are-from-Mars-Women-are-from-Venus stereotypes, but we’ve heard too much anecdotal evidence to ignore this one. It’s not that watching [...]

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10 Rules of the Pickup

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

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photo by ezioman It’s not easy to be yourself when attempting a pick-up. But the more out-of-character you try to be, the worse it’s going to go. The goal is to get someone to like you for you. That said, certain things should never be said or done during a pick-up, no matter how “naturally” [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Cat-Call?

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

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photo by bobster855 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week, they answer the following: Why do men cat-call? Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): Oh boy, where did I just see a link to a TV clip of a woman walking up to men who cat-called her and asked them why?  (You can answer in [...]

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Wise Guys: How Should a Woman Pick Up a Man in a Bar?

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

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photo by Andre Natta Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What are the best ways for a woman to pick up a man in a bar? Gay Single Guy (Daniel): Well, what kind of bar is it? If it’s a sports bar, talk about the game of course! [...]

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Study: The Car Doesn’t Maketh the Man

Friday, June 19, 2009

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photo by Qole_Pejorian In news that will probably be surprising only to the male readers of this site, a recent study found that expensive cars don’t really impress the ladies. Researchers in Australia measured changes in the brain responses of women toward a range of men in different cars. Turns out a man having a [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s a Guy-Friendly Date?

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

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photo by ClevelandSGS Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What is a guy-friendly date? Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Seriously?¬† Anything that doesn’t involve talking about feelings. Straight Married Guy (Fred): If he’s into you, anything is a guy-friendly date.¬† Okay, maybe not ballroom dancing [...]

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