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Tag Archive | "Submission"

Extra-Marital Sex: Ask for Permission, Not Forgiveness

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

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Reader Vixen told the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Remember, dear readers: Most people find it easier to get over infidelity than dishonesty in their spouse. The sooner you say something — preferably before you actually cheat — the better. My [...]

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Comment of the Week: BDSM Destroyed My Marriage

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

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photo via flickr Reader Nancy told the following heartbreaking story in response to our post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Sometimes, it turns out, love just isn’t enough… I have been married for 17 years and recently discovered my husband’s infidelity. He started with a porn addiction which affected [...]

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Comment of the Week: TOO Equal in a Relationship = No Spark

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

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Reader AndySea wrote the following in response to the post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” What do the rest of you think: Is it true that in a relationship of equals, “the sexual spark is never as strong”? (For the record, AndySea is speaking of any kind of power dynamic in [...]

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Your Call: How Do I Set Limits in a New BDSM Relationship?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

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photo via Entertainment Weekly We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below (for a reader who appears to be dating a [...]

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