IDA: The Coolest New Breakthrough in Couple’s Massager Technology

We’re big fans of the Swedish pleasure object company LELO (and not just because they’re our dear sponsor) — we’ve never met a toy of theirs we didn’t like! But their brand new couple’s massager just might take the cake. IDA is the world’s first couple’s massager that ROTATES. Of course the whole thing vibrates, […]

Got a Great Idea for a Sex Toy?

Funnily enough, one of the most common questions we get around here (after “How can I enlarge my penis?”and “How can I orgasm more/better/at all?”) is “I have a sex toy  idea — how do I go about getting it made?” We’re not in that biz, so we avoid those questions. But now we have […]

Last Chance to Win a Brand New GIGI2! (Odds Are Excellent!)

sponsored post In honor of the new GIGI 2‘s unexpected color option — grey — we’re throwing the contest “What’s YourFavorite Color Pleasure Object?” One random winner will be the lucky recipient of the 100% more powerful and waterproof GIGI 2! You can simply Tweet your favorite color to @Lelo_Sweden with the hashtag #GIGI2 AND/OR post […]

Pop Culture
Great Love Texts from Literature: Romeo & Juliet

ACT II. SCENE II. Capulet’s orchard: Juliet: R, where u @? [No response.] Juliet: helloooo???? [No response. Juliet starts a new text.] Juliet: yo, i think i’m in <3 but our rents h8 each other Romeo: o rly? Juliet: omg! meant that for my bff, lolz. nvm! Romeo: QFT Juliet: ??? Romeo: i feel the […]

The World’s Best G-Spotter Just Got Better

sponsored post Our friends over at LELO have been making big improvements to a lot of their best pleasure objects as part of their 10-year anniversary celebrations taking place throughout 2013. Their latest reveal is the GIGI 2, an even better version of the world’s most positively-reviewed and best-selling G-spotter. How exactly is it better?: 100% […]

LELO’s Smart Wands Win the 2013 Red Dot Design Award!

Medium Smart Wand in plum by LELO Pop the champagne! Our friends over at LELO have just gotten word that their Smart Wands Cordless Body Massagers have been awarded the Red Dot Design Award for Excellence in Product Design—their second Red Dot in as many years, with their couples’ massager Tiani bringing home last year’s honor. Regarded as […]

Do It Tonight
Do It Tonight: Banish Your Phone

photo via flickr In an interview on Fresh Air last week, Sherry Turkle, author of the new book Alone Together: Why We Expect More From Technology and Less from Each Other, discussed people’s emotional dependence on digital devices. Her theory is that people are not making the important emotional connections with people that they need, […]

How Long Would You Give Up Sex for an iPhone 5?

image via flickr How long would you give up sex for a free iPhone 5? RELATED ARTICLES ON How to Introduce Your Man to Toys in the Bedroom Lelo’s 3 Classic Toys Are Now 100% More Powerful! A Guide to the Sex Toys in Fifty Shades of Grey

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Can You Fall in Love Through Video Chats?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Dear Em & Lo, I met a great man through an […]

How Technology Fixes Fairy Tales

While Em was reading her daughter a bedtime story the other night, it occurred to her — because she has read the same stories hundreds of times and thus it is possible to think about potential posts for this blog while reading — that a swift exchange of contact info would have been a much […]