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Tag Archive | "Virginity"

Dear Em & Lo, Do I Have to Tell Him I’m a Virgin?

Thursday, March 7, 2013

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photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Yesterday we answered a thirty-something virgin’s plea for help. Today, we tell her and this woman and virgins everywhere whether they should tell the first guy they’re going to have intercourse with that they’re still carrying their V-cards: Dear Em & [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, I’m a Thirty-Something Virgin – Help!

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

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photo via Flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I’ll get straight to it: I’m in my early thirties and I’m a virgin. Not really by choice. It’s just never happened. It’s gotten to the point where I’m so worried what potential dates (and even platonic [...]

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Confession: I Lied About Being a Virgin

Thursday, May 3, 2012

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photo via flickr A female friend of ours, a recent college grad who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: When I got to college, I was still carrying around my V card in my back pocket. By then, I had read erotica, watched porn, masturbated, made out furiously with high school boyfriends, [...]

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A Documentary Film on Virginity Needs Some Lovin’

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

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Theresa Shecter and the gals at Trixie Films are making a documentary called “How to Lose Your Virginity”¬†– it’s goal is “to undo centuries of myths and contradictions around¬†virginity, and to encourage an honest conversation with people¬†navigating the confusing process of deciding when and why to become¬†sexual.” Its subjects include a rock violinist, an Ivy¬†League [...]

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Comment of the Week: Vaginismus Is God’s Method of Population Control

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

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Not every Comment of the Week is chosen for its thoughtfulness, insight and eloquence. No, sometimes we get a comment that is so insane and earnest and downright creepy, that we can’t help but highlight it, if for no other reason than its entertainment value. Sure, it might be a joke. Either way, it’ll make [...]

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Your Call: Where Should a Husband/Stepfather’s Loyalties Lie?

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. And frankly, this one is a doozie. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below. Dear [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, How Far Should I Go to Keep a Guy?

Thursday, January 12, 2012

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Dear Em & Lo, I’m a young adult in a new relationship with a guy a year older than me. I have never done anything besides kiss with a guy, and I know that he is definitely not a virgin. I don’t think I am ready to do anything with him, and I know he [...]

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Your Call: How Can She Jump-Start Her Sex Life?

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below. Hi Em & Lo, For various reasons [...]

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Car Crash Sex on TV

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

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We recently ran a post on EMandLO.com about¬†television shows with hot sex scenes, but if we’re being honest, the stuff that really floats our boats is the hilarious, cringe-worthy stuff that just seems a lot more realistic — after all, sex is often awkward, full of miscommunication, with some head bonking and disappointment, maybe tears. [...]

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The Virginity Project – a Blog, a Book, a Play

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

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We first heard from Kate Monro a few years ago from across the pond when her¬†Virginity Project was just a fledgeling little baby blog. Today,¬†that blog, which collects and publishes first time tales of all sorts from all over the world, is¬†shortlisted for the final of the¬†UK Cosmoplitan Blog Awards 2011; she’s got a book [...]

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