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Tag Archive | "Wise Guys"

Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About When They Masturbate?

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. A while back, one woman wanted to know “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” In his response, Max (one of our Single Straight Guys) said, “Trust me: You don’t want to do the things that we’re thinking [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Turn Down Casual Sex?

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Do guys ever turn down casual sex? To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Jamie): My own experience with casual sex is a bit limited.  I was always a “girlfriend guy” and it was only between relationships [...]

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Wise Guys: Is It Really Such a Big Deal If I Hate Giving Blowjobs?

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “I really hate going down on guys. I’ve tried it, I don’t like it. In fact, I loathe it. I feel bad about it, but if I don’t expect oral in return (I don’t), then why should I feel compelled to do [...]

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Why Do Men Masturbate When They’re Having Regular Sex?

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

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photo via flickr Wise Guys is a regular column offering advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Every guy has a regular masturbation frequency (RMF) that is more or less unchangeable [...]

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Wise Guys: My Girlfriend Says Porn Is a Dealbreaker, Is She Right?

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do you do if your girlfriend, whom you love very much, doesn’t understand why you like and watch porn occasionally: she’s intellectually and viscerally opposed to it, thinks it is a horrible industry that exploits people and perpetuates [...]

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Wise Guys: What If Her Libido Is Bigger Than His?

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What would most guys think about dating a woman whose sex drive was higher than his? Would it be awesome? Annoying? Lead to insecurities? Make you think less (or more) of her? All of the above?” To ask the [...]

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Wise Guys: What’s a Good Present for a Man?

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

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photo by mysza Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s a good holiday present for 1) a guy you’ve just started dating (sleeping with), 2) a guy you’ve been exclusive with for a year or so, 3) a husband?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. [...]

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We’re Looking for a Few Good Wise Guys

Thursday, November 14, 2013

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The Wise Guys are coming back! But we have a few openings that need filling. (That didn’t come out quite right.) Are you a guy? Do you have something to say about the male experience and perspective when it comes to love and sex? Do you want fame and adoration without the complications of payment? [...]

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The Best Halloween Costume (Baby Or Otherwise) We Saw This Year

Thursday, October 31, 2013

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Mark Luczak is one of our favorite Wise Guys (everyday men who have given us the male perspective on love and sex issues since we began this blog back in 2009). As a Straight Single Wise Guy, Mark always responded to our advice questions — indeed every email we ever sent — with enthusiasm and [...]

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What Do You Want to Ask Our Wise Guys?

Tuesday, August 13, 2013

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Regular visitors to this site might have noticed that it’s been a while since we posted a new installment of our Wise Guys column — this is the feature in which men from various relationship types/sexuality answer your burning questions. Well, these wise male buddies of ours are raring to go and ready to answer [...]

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