Your Call: Do Bigger Penises Lead to Different Orgasms for Women?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.

Dear Em & Lo,

Are the G-Spot orgasm and vaginal orgasm the same thing?

Assuming they’re different: I have an average penis size of 6 inches in lenth and 5 inches girth — am I able to give a woman a G-Spot or vaginal orgasm?

I have read about women saying only above average penises (8 inches mentioned the most) can reach certain spots in the vagina to produce these orgasms. I wouldn’t say I am insecure about myself or my size, but I would just like to know if this is true.

And let’s face it: Even if it is true, there isn’t much I can do to get to 8 inches anyway is there! I would just concentrate on trying to please through the clitoris instead.

— Average Joe

What advice or insight do you have to share with Average Joe about G-spot vs. vaginal orgasms and penis size? Leave your comments in the feedback section below.


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1 year 9 months ago

Speech marks should I say haha xD

Average Joe
1 year 9 months ago

Thanks for your help everyone :)

I was just curious to see if there was a difference. I will give She Comes First a read.


Why did u put average in brackets :s haha

1 year 9 months ago

Read “She Comes First” by Ian Kerner. It will tell you everything you need to know about female orgasms.

1 year 9 months ago

Duly noted on the cervix issue – I was poking a little fun at myself. I’ve been jabbed in the cervix a few times, and each time it resulted in shutting the whole thing down. I am curious as to whether cervical stimulation itself has led to actual orgasm, as opposed to more enhanced pleasure.
And I didn’t say size was irrelevant – I said that in my experience, that’s the case for many women, but definitely not all.
Appreciate the correction. :)

1 year 9 months ago


While most women do not find cervical stimulation enjoyable, some actually do.

Some women like the sensation of being “filled” so the bigger the better until its too big (concept of diminishing returns).

While length might not impact g spot stimulation, girth certainly will. Though length might make certain positions more or less enjoyable.

Size isn’t completely irrelevant, and specific size preferences are going to vary among women, though like you said chemistry is probably the most important factor.