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Dear Em & Lo,
I was friends with my boyfriend for quite a while before we started dating a couple months ago. Because of that, our relationship didn’t start the way I’m used to. We already got past the awkward “hanging out” stages before we actually dated at all, but unfortunately, all we’re doing still is “dating.” It’s basically doing what we were before, but making out and sleeping over. KEYWORD: SLEEPING.
I know he had his heart broken way back when, and I’m sure he has trust issues, but what is the best way to bring up sex? We’ve fooled around two or three times, but it doesn’t seem to be going much farther and I’m dying over here! Should I just try to seduce him and get it over with, or do I stick it out? I really like this guy, but I’m getting a bit antsy. Help please!
— Blue Walls
What should B.W. do?