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Been married for thirty-six years and when we have sex he is really amazing. The problem is we have sex only once every 1 to 2 years! It has always been sorta few and far between.
This is what really bothers me: he says it has to be when he is ready, when he is in the mood. Believe me, if it was when I wanted it, it would be at least twice a month.
How can I get him to realize that sometimes it makes me feel like my opinions or feelings do not matter to him?
— Blue Box
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