We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.
Dear Em & Lo,
I’m having a moral crisis. I met someone on craigslist a few months ago. The nature of the relationship was that we both wanted a FWB situation. The sex was fantastic! I eventually got curious about this man, looked him up, and discovered he had a girlfriend. I promptly ended our lusty relationship (my sister’s boyfriend cheated on her – she was devastated). Now all I can think about is telling the girlfriend what a cheating d-bag her boyfriend is. My rationale: I would want to know if it were me! Should I do this? Or stay out of it?
— The Messenger
What should The Messenger do? Let her know in the comments below.