Your Call: Pick the Official Term for Those Who Date Much Older People

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A while back, in response to a sincere question from a 19-year-old vocab nerd who’s dating a 28 year old, we asked for your help in coming up with a term for her. We asked that it be something positive that suggested these women aren’t simply shallow gold diggers but may actually prefer the more mature company of guys who are older and wiser. Even better, we said, if it’s a term that could apply to both women and men who date older.

We got some great responses, as well as some reprimands from readers who thought such an endeavor was a cheap, immature joke at the expense of genuine relationships that were nobody else’s business, damn it! But we’re not judging here, we’re just trying to come up with a cute and catchy moniker that our original inquirer would be happy to apply to herself.

As far as we’re concerned, none of the following terms is offensive or derogatory. But we guess like the C word, it all comes down to the context of how they’re used. So whichever one you pick, use it with love.

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6 years 5 months ago

“Gerontophile” is pretty well recognized as a proper word. I quite like it myself. The more so as each year passes, actually.

6 years 5 months ago

I agree with AlanK “human” seems resonable.

6 years 5 months ago

How about “human”?

Jay Jay
6 years 5 months ago

Geri-o-phile? Or some sort of play on geriatrics?

6 years 5 months ago

well i would still be considered ageist,
i refuse to date a woman who isn’t atleast 5 years older than i am.
i’ve been called “whippersnapper” over that situation, i’ve also heard “youngin” and “boy-toy”
but i’m starting to warm up to paleontologist,