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I’m staying at my friend and her boyfriend’s house for a couple of months until my flat is ready to move in to. She told me they are actively trying for a baby. Which is wonderful. The thing is: some evening’s but mostly mornings over the past 3 weeks I can hear them having sex. What I feel bad about is that I start to get aroused. Do I tell her I can hear her? Would she understand why I’m telling her (i.e. so she can keep the noise down a bit)? Would she want to know? Or will this just embarrass her? I personally would like to be told gently. Btw, I’ve tried ear plugs, they don’t really work. And I’m right next door, so if I put the telly on that may put them off, which is not my intention. Thanks for any advice!
— Bleeding Ears