We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. And frankly, this one is a doozie. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below.
Dear Em & Lo,
My boyfriend likes to ask me about my past sexual relationships with other men while we are having sex. How we did it, where we did it, things like that. He’s the one with an extensive sex history! While he finds it a turn-on, I find it a turn-off. It breaks my concentration on us and the moment to be asked to think about people I just don’t think about. Do any other women have this issue with their partners?
— Over It
What should O.I. do?