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Dear Em & Lo,
I have never been a very sexual person so have never really masturbated. However when I purchased myself a Rabbit this changed. From time to time I will use it and can have an orgasm, if not several, when I use it. I prefer to use my vibrator as I have only come once when I used my hands, it never feels anywhere near as good as my vibrator — as if when I use my hands there is no sensation there, and my wrist gets sore quickly. Technology rules on this one!
However, I really want to come when my boyfriend gives me oral or uses his hands on me (I have never had an orgasm through intercourse, don’t even feel close). When he uses his hands the feeling is different to when I use my hands, it feels like it is doing something, same when he goes down on me. The only thing is, it feels so different to when I orgasm with my vibrator. It is very intense and almost unbearable at times, so I end up stopping him as it feels too intense.
All in all, I would appreciate any kind of advice because I love my boyfriend very much and want to enjoy my sex life more.
— Rabbit Habit
What should Rabbit do?