Personal Essays
Confession: The Top 10 Reasons to Love the Missionary Position

photo via Failblog.org One of our college contributors, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: Everytime I check out Cosmo, look at Men’s Health with my boyfriend, or go to the sex aisle at Barnes and Noble, I see hundreds of very creative (and sometimes gravity-defying) ways that I “should” be having […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: You Can Leave Your Bra On

photo via flickr Kev, responding to the post “Your Call: Can She Keep Her Boobs Covered Up During Sex?”: Us men love boobs. But we also love sexy bras as well. And the right guy, when you find him, will love all of you. People do get hung up about their bodies, but if you are in […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Why Do Men Cheat Down?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your response in the comments section below. Why do guys cheat down? Meaning, picking a woman less […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Two Guys, Two Girls, and a Light Bulb

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had the weirdest dream and can’t […]

News
Naked News: Smiling Is Nature’s Botox

Smile! Not because it’s not that bad (it probably is that bad), but because it makes you look younger. Porn star Sasha Grey reads to elementary school kids, parents are pissed. Fun with street corner posters: a response to a fundamentalist Christian protester on the UT Austin campus. Ha! Nooooooo! Gay penguin couple being separated and forced to mate with […]

Websites
29 Sex Tips from 29 Sexperts

College Candy recently asked us along with a bunch of other sex writers to contribute a sex tip, the kind of thing “that you wish your friends/boyfriends/ex’s would tell you — and not the tips that you read in magazines that are impossible to achieve (rope swing in my bedroom…say what?!).” They also asked everyone […]

Research
Study Links Sex with Animals to Penile Cancer

photo via flickr No, seriously. We know this sounds like something straight out of The Onion, but a team of urologists in Brazil actually studied this. One theory on the connection is that sex with animals could cause micro-injuries to the penis, which are a well-recognized risk factor in the development of penile cancer. You’d […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Why Men Aren’t, Actually, Intimidated By Vibrators

CollegeCandy: 29 sex tips from 29 sexperts (yours truly included). How About We: 7 reasons why men aren’t intimidated by vibrators. TresSugar: How the Victoria’s Secret idea of sexy has evolved (hint: “evolved” may be an overly generous term here). YourTango: 3 signs you’re unknowingly sabotaging your love life. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Sex at 36: boys […]

News
The Forward Momentum of Gay Rights

We mentioned a recent Pew Research Center survey earlier this week (in Naked News) that shows how public acceptance of same-sex marriage has grown in the past two years, jumping by 9 percentage points, making the country now evenly divided on the issue, with 46% in support legalization and 44% opposed. While reading up on the topic, […]

Polls
Poll: Would You Rely on a Male Birth Control Pill?

If a male birth control pill hit the market today, would you rely on it? Pick the answer that best reflects your strongest conviction, men in the first poll, women in the second: Men Only Poll: Would You Take a Male Birth Control Pill? Ladies Only Poll: Would You Trust a Male Birth Control Pill? […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Privacy Fosters Romance in Long-Term Relationships

photo via Flickr Ella, responding to the Question of the Week, “When do you leave the bathroom door open?”: I’ll never leave the bathroom door open (when using the loo), because my boyfriend thinks that this kills the sex appeal in a partnership. He thinks that one should have certain “secrets” to still perceive the […]

How To
Googling the One Who Got Away

Before Facebook, MySpace, Google, et al, the “one who got away” (OWGA) was rarely more than a passing daydream — or a handy bit of masturbation material. Sure, someone might have eagerly looked forward to their ten-year high school reunion and they might have spent a little longer picking out an outfit before hitting the […]

Polls
What Should Everyone Try In Bed At Least Once?

photo via flickr We’re working on a magazine article about things that every woman should try in bed at least once — your sexual bucket list, if you will. Have any of you tried any of the following things in bed? If so, will you write to us and tell us about it? Even just […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Boyf Begs Me Not to Leave After I’ve Cheated

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Okay, so I’ve had two dreams about […]

News
Naked News: Mississippi May Give Human Rights to Fertilized Eggs

photo via flickr Mississippi may defy science and give fertilized eggs human rights. Poll shows support for gay marriage continues to rise. Also, more and more people now agree that it’s not safe to run with scissors. Half of U.S. students in middle and high school face sexual harassment. Pelvic muscle exercises alone may not […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What’s the Appeal of Girl-on-Girl Action?

photo by marcogomes Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s up with straight guys’ almost universal fascination with girl-on-girl action?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Committed Guy (Johnny): Other than the simple answer — it makes me and almost all other men pop a boner — perhaps […]