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Dear Em & Lo
What to Do When You Get Your Period on a Booty Call

Dear Em & Lo, For the past two weeks I have been sleeping with a guy I met here at college. The boundaries of our relationship have been well-established: late night phone calls for no-strings-attached sex. We’re having a great time, and I want to keep this thing going. However, the last time we were […]

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Your Call: How Can I Compensate for a Skinny Penis?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Hi, My penis girth falls below the average […]

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Your Call: Should She Stay or Should She Go?

photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. We seem to be getting a lot of bad boyfriend letters lately — maybe these women just need to hear […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Give Your Spouse More Credit

photo via Flickr When a reader asked “Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker?“, Henry’s response concisely showed how having a better attitude — i.e. being more generous, looking at things from a more positive perspective — can make all the difference in a relationship:  I’ve been married 14 years. I’ve always thought my non-college educated woman a […]

Confessions
Comment(s) of the Week: Be Smart About Respect

It’s a tie between two responses to our Your Call post Is Intellectual Inequality a Deal Breaker? — both of which are great advice for any relationship. First, Dannie said:  This is a question that ultimately only you can answer, because only you know your priorities.  Is intelligence the most important thing to you?  On the flip […]

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Blog Snog: Whitney Cummings Decodes Online Dating

The Frisky: 5 “deviant” sex acts that science says are good for you. YourTango: Is bad sex necessarily a relationship deal breaker? Nerve: Sex advice from comedian Max Silvestri. The Date Report: How to emoji booty text like a professional. Pop Sugar: Whitney Cummings decodes online dating.

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: My Girlfriend Says Porn Is a Dealbreaker, Is She Right?

photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do you do if your girlfriend, whom you love very much, doesn’t understand why you like and watch porn occasionally: she’s intellectually and viscerally opposed to it, thinks it is a horrible industry that exploits people and perpetuates […]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Fiance Won’t Let Me Use a Vibrator During Sex

Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I am 24 years old and am recently engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years. We have been very open with our sexual problems but one I just can’t see to get him to understand is that I can’t have […]

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10 Tips to Stop Hating Your Body Enough to Have Sex

photo via Flickr Dear Em & Lo, So, I think that I just might (fingers, eyes, everything but legs crossed) get cozy with a guy I’ve been crushing on forever. We’re friends, but frequently get a bit romantic when we hang out and naughty-text once in a while. I would love to have a relationship […]

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Dear Em & Lo, Do I Have to Tell Him I’m a Virgin?

photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Yesterday we answered a thirty-something virgin’s plea for help. Today, we tell her and this woman and virgins everywhere whether they should tell the first guy they’re going to have intercourse with that they’re still carrying their V-cards: Dear Em & […]

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Dear Em & Lo: On Average, How Often Do BJs Occur in Relationships?

photo by Public Domain Photos Dear Em & Lo, What is the average number of BJ’s a guy in a relationship receives? (FYI: I’m a straight guy.) — Joe Blow Dear Joe, The actual average, even the more accurate median number (if they were somehow knowable, which they’re not) would be totally misleading, because the […]

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Blog Snog: The Flirtiest iPad Game for a First Date

image of Fingle College Candy: 10 signs you’ve been friend-zoned. The Frisky: 13 things to do after sex other than sleeping or cuddling. TresSugar: 16 actors who’ve cross-dressed in movies.  YourTango: The phrase men hate to hear.  Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: I love therefore I’m nuts: great philosophers who failed at love. HuffPost/Women: Heidi & Seal […]

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Dear Em & Lo, How Far Should I Go to Keep a Guy?

Dear Em & Lo, I’m a young adult in a new relationship with a guy a year older than me. I have never done anything besides kiss with a guy, and I know that he is definitely not a virgin. I don’t think I am ready to do anything with him, and I know he […]

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Blog Snog: The Curse of Being Cute

photo via Flickr CollegeCandy: The curse of being cute. How About We: The 50 most ridiculous deal breakers you’ve ever heard. TresSugar: 3 ways to optimize your online dating search. YourTango: Why she won’t sleep with you. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Oh, Kim. Has marriage EVER had sanctity? TheFrisky: When dirty talk goes TOO far. HuffPo Women: […]

Dear Em & Lo
10 Tips to Stop Hating Your Body Enough to Have Sex

photo via Flickr Dear Em & Lo, So, I think that I just might (fingers, eyes, everything but legs crossed) get cozy with a guy I’ve been crushing on forever. We’re friends, but frequently get a bit romantic when we hang out and naughty-text once in a while. I would love to have a relationship […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: She Doesn’t Like Going Down

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & Lo, I hate […]