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Tag Archive | "Jealousy"

How Open Relationships Cure Jealousy

Wednesday, May 7, 2014


Reader Kristinopolis¬†(who has written in other posts¬†on our site about her experience with open relationships) said the following in response to our post, “Can Open Relationships Cure Jealousy?” I know why it works. When you are committed to one person, everyone else becomes ‚Äėunattainable‚Äô or maybe ‚Äėunloveable‚Äô in a way. Then there’s the typical wanting [...]

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Comment of the Week: I’m Jealous of My Wife’s Friends

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

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Reader Jeff posted the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Why Is My Husband Jealous of My Female Friendships?”¬†We thought it would be a great jumping off point for a debate about how to compromise in a relationship when one person wants a lot more solo time with their friends than another. How [...]

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Your Call: My Boyfriend’s Boss Sexually Harasses Him But He Doesn’t Care

Tuesday, November 6, 2012


We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. The letter is long this week, but it’s [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Can’t Handle My Sexual Past

Wednesday, March 28, 2012


photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have known one another three total years. In the beginning of our friendship, I treated him like a best friend, and told him quite a bit about my sexual past with ex-boyfriends. It [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa, My Boyfriend Cries “Cheater!” on the Days I Feel “Looser”

Wednesday, September 7, 2011


photo via Flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions on EMandLO.com. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, My boyfriend gets upset that sometimes my vagina is looser than other times. [...]

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5 Ways to Beat the Green-Eyed Monster

Thursday, October 21, 2010


image via Sukanto Debnath Here are our top 5 tips for vanquishing the green-eyed monster. Or at least making friends with him. We know this is hard to control — chemistry being what it is — but your best bet is to date someone whose jealousy meter is about equivalent to yours. For example, let’s [...]

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Dream Interpretation – My BF Gave Me a Necklace, Then Shagged My Mum

Monday, June 21, 2010


photo by lindyireland Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about love and sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve had this dream on several occasions now, and it’s really bothering me. It starts with me organizing [...]

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Dear Em & Lo – My Boyfriend Talks to His Female Friends Way Too Much

Friday, May 21, 2010


hat from Zazzle.com Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we have a very honest and loving relationship. While I have struggled with jealous tendencies in the past, I have come to a point where I trust him completely and know he would not ever lie [...]

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Comments of the Week: Learn to Dance, Men!

Wednesday, May 12, 2010


photo by tauress We were expecting most of the advice for the “Your Call” post about a guy who doesn’t like it when his girlfriend dances with other guys to focus on jealousy and insecurity issues. But instead you surprised us with some awesome practical advice on taking dance lessons… Why aren‚Äôt YOU dancing with [...]

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Your Call – I Hate It When My GF Dances with Other Guys

Tuesday, May 11, 2010


image via Sukanto Debnath Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my girlfriend for over two years and I still get very upset when other guys ask her to dance. I understand she’s not doing anything wrong, just going out and having a good time. I assume it’s because I’m just very scared of losing [...]

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