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Tag Archive | "Foreplay"

5 Easy Ways to Talk Dirtier Tonight

Friday, May 10, 2013

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Dirty talk can terrify even the most seasoned sexual adventurer—people are afraid of sounding stupid or afraid of like a pornstar… or perhaps they’re afraid of not sounding like a pornstar. But when you break it down, dirty talk is actually much simpler and more approachable than you might think. Here are five easy ways [...]

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Your Call: My Husband Isn’t Interested in Sex with Me

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Do It Tonight: Banish Your Phone

Friday, October 26, 2012

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photo via flickr In an interview on Fresh Air last week, Sherry Turkle, author of the new book Alone Together: Why We Expect More From Technology and Less from Each Other, discussed people’s emotional dependence on digital devices. Her theory is that people are not making the important emotional connections with people that they need, [...]

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Wise Guys: Do You Like a Helping Handjob, Or Is Solo Better?

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “s a handjob better than nothing for most guys, or would they rather just do the job themselves in that case?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): This question is silly. [...]

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Wise Guys: What Do Men Really Think About Cuddling?

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men really think about cuddling?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Married Guy (Jon Ross): Cuddling is the most amazing thing in the world to do after you’ve come — after having a cigarette [...]

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5 Less Obvious Places to Touch Each Other

Thursday, January 26, 2012

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photo via flickr EMandLO.com contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz — you can read her blog here — has a confession to make: There are some perks to being a Human Sexuality major — and I’m not just talking about its potential as a pick-up line. [...]

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Redefining Foreplay

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

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photo via Flickr Foreplay is not an obligatory two minutes of making out, it’s not purely physical, it’s not a routine that automatically earns you intercourse, it’s not just for women, and it doesn’t always have to be candle-lit (though florescent overhead lights are never seductive). The idea is to free foreplay it’s traditionally narrow definition. [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Hates Kissing

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

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photo by ValtheKid Dear Em & Lo, My man, who I love and adore, blah blah blah, does not like to kiss. This is not to say we don’t peck: we do, as after bringing up the lack of kissing to him earlier in our relationship (around year one of three), he did up the [...]

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Top 10 Do’s and Don’ts of Sensual Massage

Monday, April 25, 2011

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photo by zaphodsotherhead Massage as foreplay is one of those sex tips that “everyone knows” — but few people know well. Be honest, how many times have you actually massaged your partner for longer than a few minutes of shoulder squeezing in front of the TV, or a half-hearted swish over their back with your [...]

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5 Ways to Practice Mindfulness in the Bedroom

Friday, April 22, 2011

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photo by Daniel Sandoval We met Wendy Strgar, founder of the company Good Clean Love, at a conference in Vegas (as one does) a few years back and were instant fans. Good Clean Love makes organic love products — for example, lubes that actually smell good, and aren’t packed with nasty artificial sugars (which can [...]

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