Your Call: Does the “Pass the Underwear” Trick Really Work?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader.  The reader below wants to know how to give her boyfriend the best Thanksgiving ever. Leave your suggestions in the comments section below. 

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Dear Em & Lo,

How do I make my man have the best orgasm he’s ever had? If I slip my underwear off and give them to him discreetly when we are in public, will it turn him on?

— Pantsless in Seattle

What should P.I.S. do? Leave your advice in the comments section below.




  1. I agree with the reader above about not wearing underwear in the first place and letting me know discreetly. That turns me on every time.

  2. I’ve experienced this in the work place. A young new hire walked up to me in the hall a very carefully placed her gstring into the palm of my hand and made me promise not to look until I returned to my office. Needless to say I will never forget her or what happened next.

  3. I did this when I was younger (and also pulled the trick that Annie suggests above). Turned him on every time, with each boyfriend I tried it with. But I would caution you to avoid this tactic if you think the whole situation would just make him nervous or uncomfortable. The intensity of his orgasm, however, depends entirely on what happens after. 😉

  4. Absolutely. And the sexier the underwear and shorter the skirt or dress, the more turned on he will be. Extra credit for making the switch in public and early into a long evening. Trust me, by the end of the night he’ll barely remember his own name, though he’ll be moaning yours. Have fun!

  5. Why not forget to not wear it in the first place and then let him know, by touch or whisper, that you’ve “gone commando”. After the first time, my guy wants me that way all the time so he can touch whenever he wants. Depending on what you wear, it can be great or a challenge. And there have been a few times we haven’t made it home before….

  6. When I was in college a woman I was seeing took her bra off under her shirt and (discreetly) gave it to me in a bar. I thought that trick was pretty cool.

  7. Ha ha… I didn’t know this was a trick.

    I don’t know. That’d probably make me laugh more than turn me on.

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