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Short on time? Don't want to spend a lot of money? But still want to acknowledge your undying affection on Valentine's Day? All it takes is one trip to the grocery store, a…

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Valentine’s Day is coming faster than you think, and if you’re among the majority of people who were none too pleased…

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There were audible groans among the crowd — especially from the hetero dads — at my friend’s Super Bowl LII party when Maroon 5’s frontman Adam Levine took off his…

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We once heard an interview on NPR with Sheril Kirshenbaum, author of the book "The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us." (It was was…

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This series by Diana Gabaldon is "Game of Thrones" for ladies. Do yourself a favor and get on this fun, time-traveling, Scottish, romance bus.

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Perhaps the most expensive lipstick you'll ever buy -- Chanel Rouge Allur Velvet Luminous Matte Lip Colour # N°3 --  but maybe worth the splurge, like for your…

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This cordless, waterproof, rechargeable massager with an oversized motor delivers exceptional power with four stimulating modes and five power levels.

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A present revolving around dumping will probably get you dumped, so consider this simple invention (that will make your bathroom experiences so much smoother) for a "me-present."…