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News 4 weeks ago
These days, you hear a lot of parents bemoan the fact that they can't have the news on, for fear their kids might hear something sexually inappropriate. That "America's Dad" Bill Cosby…

What's Up Doc? 1 month ago
As two women who've had some experience on the receiving end of a speculum, we offered some advice to one reader about how to get over her fear of visiting a…

Dear Em & Lo 1 month ago
Hey Em and Lo, I know how important it is to see a gyno, but honestly, I am terrified to go.  I've actually made several appointments since I lost my virginity about nine…

Do It Tonight 2 months ago
Lube gets a bad rap, so we'd like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a "crutch." And reaching for the wet stuff doesn't automatically…

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