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Definitely move on, he will never be satisfied and will stray if you are as boring as you sound.

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You actually showed sensitivity towards a guy's feelings? I find that very hard to believe.

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So Stephen...you've made it your mission to scour the internet searching out women (and attacking them) who don't conform to…

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Thank you Stephen...the advice that you credit to Em and Lo was actually written by me! LOL

Dave on On Second Thought, When Men Ask About Their Size, Do THIS

You completely missed the point of Em&Lo's advice. Their advice was sensitive and thoughtful towards his feelings so not to…

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I always felt this article was going to bring out the worst women that make size a priority. Unfortunately, I…

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