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Happy International Trans Visibility Day (March 31st)! Unfortunately, it's not all balloons and supportive hugs: Trump's list of discriminatory actions against the transgender community so far is too long to list in a…

News 2 months ago
Pantsuit Nation, the private Facebook group of around 4 million members, was originally created as online camaraderie for Hillary Clinton supporters in the 2016 election but has since morphed into a sort of support group for…

How To 3 months ago
The powerful, unapologetic, detailed statement of Brock Turner’s rape victim made public recently touched a collective nerve, resulting in a huge outcry on social media about…

News 4 months ago
Utah excels at socializing male supremacy and female acquiescence. While students at Kanesville Elementary in West Haven, UT, were not required to take part in the Valentine's Day sixth-grade dance, those participating would…

Books 5 months ago
Cory Silverberg is elevating in-home sex-ed to an art form, one kick-ass book at a time. His first kids' book on reproduction, called WHAT MAKES A BABY (for…


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