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Dear Em & Lo 1 week ago
Hey Em and Lo, I know how important it is to see a gyno, but honestly, I am terrified to go.  I've actually made several appointments since I lost my virginity about nine…

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Lube gets a bad rap, so we'd like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a "crutch." And reaching for the wet stuff doesn't automatically…

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Dear Em & Lo, I'm writing to ask you about your opinion of rape fantasies. I've been in a serious and loving relationship with my boyfriend for almost four years now. It's…

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With all the studies released on a near-weekly basis proving or disproving the existence of the G-spot, millions of women worldwide who enjoy G attention, tend to…


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