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This guy Dave seems to be nonsense brother....... do u even realise what all shit u talking... having a big…

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Dave on On Second Thought, When Men Ask About Their Size, Do THIS

Definitely move on, he will never be satisfied and will stray if you are as boring as you sound.

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