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There were audible groans among the crowd — especially from the hetero dads — at my friend’s Super Bowl LII party when Maroon 5’s frontman Adam Levine took off his…

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We once heard an interview on NPR with Sheril Kirshenbaum, author of the book "The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us." (It was was…


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