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Special Issues 3 weeks ago
A round-up of our best Halloween-themed posts to get you in a hot, gothic mood.

Sexual Health 3 weeks ago
One of my kids has red hair. So when I discovered the upper estimate of the population born with intersex traits is 1.7% -- similar to the number of…

Confessions 2 months ago
A dad friend of mine, who’d read my recent piece on making sexual assault in the news a teachable moment for kids, forwarded me the following tweet from Andi…

News 2 months ago
These days, you hear a lot of parents bemoan the fact that they can't have the news on, for fear their kids might hear something sexually inappropriate. That "America's Dad" Bill Cosby…

What's Up Doc? 2 months ago
As two women who've had some experience on the receiving end of a speculum, we offered some advice to one reader about how to get over her fear of visiting a…


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