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What's Up Doc? 2 weeks ago
As two women who've had some experience on the receiving end of a speculum, we offered some advice to one reader about how to get over her fear of visiting a…

Dear Em & Lo 2 weeks ago
Hey Em and Lo, I know how important it is to see a gyno, but honestly, I am terrified to go.  I've actually made several appointments since I lost my virginity about nine…

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Lube gets a bad rap, so we'd like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a "crutch." And reaching for the wet stuff doesn't automatically…

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Dear Em & Lo 4 weeks ago
Dear Em & Lo, I'm writing to ask you about your opinion of rape fantasies. I've been in a serious and loving relationship with my boyfriend for almost four years now. It's…


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