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These days, you hear a lot of parents bemoan the fact that they can't have the news on, for fear their kids might hear something sexually inappropriate. That "America's Dad" Bill Cosby…

What's Up Doc? 1 month ago
As two women who've had some experience on the receiving end of a speculum, we offered some advice to one reader about how to get over her fear of visiting a…

Dear Em & Lo 1 month ago
Hey Em and Lo, I know how important it is to see a gyno, but honestly, I am terrified to go.  I've actually made several appointments since I lost my virginity about nine…

Do It Tonight 2 months ago
Lube gets a bad rap, so we'd like to clear its name here once and for all: Store-bought personal lubricant is not a "crutch." And reaching for the wet stuff doesn't automatically…

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex & relationships. If you’ve got a good one, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg just might tell you what it means! 


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