Get More FREE Sex & Love Advice

Become a better lover: sign up for our newsletter!

Take 15% OFF

LELO LUNA Beads Noir

use code:

The Latest
Special Issue 4 days ago
One of the most popular fantasies is the ravishment fantasy. Does that mean, deep down, people really want to be sexually dominated against their will? We break down the meanings and myths…

How To 1 week ago
The definition of sex is not "intercourse". You won't find terms like "going all the way" on this site, because intercourse is not the last lap you complete to…

Toys 1 week ago
Emily Sauer is the founder of Ohnut, an intimate health wearable for painful intercourse that allows you to customize the depth of penetration (think of a "donut" made…

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex & relationships. If you’ve got a good one, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg just might tell you what it means! 

Dear Em & Lo 2 weeks ago
Dear Em & Lo, Hello there. This morning for the first time, my new boyfriend and I fucked. It was going okay until he came out with the word "cunt."  I froze. Maybe…

Hot Topics
Em&Lo's Latest Book
Kinkly Top 100 Blogger Badge
Favorite Finds
Must Drink
You gotta love a product that embraces an old Ryan Gosling meme. Teas for improved health, better sleep & more energy -- all things that improve your…

Must Pride
A must have for your local gay pride parade!

Must-Have Accessory
Hydrate in style after a rigorous sesh. Around $30.

Must-Have Accessory
There's only a week or so left of Pride Month, but you can be your own LGBTQ superhero any day with this rainbow cape!