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A 2017 article written by Sarah Marcantonio, then a student at Emerson University in Boston Consent (noun): Permission, approval or agreement.  Here’s my definition of sexual consent: two (or…

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Happy International Trans Visibility Day (March 31st)! Unfortunately, it's not all balloons and supportive hugs: Trump's list of discriminatory actions against the transgender community so far is too long to list in a…

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Pantsuit Nation, the private Facebook group of around 4 million members, was originally created as online camaraderie for Hillary Clinton supporters in the 2016 election but has since morphed into a sort of support group for…

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The powerful, unapologetic, detailed statement of Brock Turner's rape victim made public recently touched a collective nerve, resulting in a huge outcry on social media about…

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Utah excels at socializing male supremacy and female acquiescence. While students at Kanesville Elementary in West Haven, UT, were not required to take part in the Valentine's Day sixth-grade dance, those participating would…


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