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Tag Archive | "Monogamy"

10 Best Things About Married Sex

Wednesday, September 17, 2014


Married sex is like the redheaded stepchild of the booty world — at least, according to TV and movies. In that world, married sex is overly lit and played for laughs, whereas all the other kinds of sex — casual sex, new sex, cheating sex, ex sex — get the sultry soundtrack and rumpled sheets. [...]

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The Bachelorette: What Happens in the Fantasy Suite Stays in the Fantasy Suite?

Tuesday, July 29, 2014


screen shot of ABC’s “After the Final Rose” Last night’s “After the Final Rose” was the most dramatic ever! Not because the Bachelorette (Andi Dorfman) got engaged to a guy (Josh “I Can’t Put My Arms Down” Murray) after only knowing him for two and a half months and only going on, like, three dates [...]

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I F’ed Up Royal: A Tale of Infidelity, Told in Stock Photography

Tuesday, May 13, 2014


Our friend Ben Weber¬†just added a second series to I F‚ÄôED UP ROYAL,¬†his hilarious and strange webseries about marriage and infidelity, told entirely via¬†stock photography and “repurposed” photos. Don’t worry if you’re not caught up — you can watch an entire season in less time than it takes you to do a 7-minute workout. Episode [...]

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What Made Your Marriage Fail?

Tuesday, April 1, 2014


Are you separated, divorced, or on your way there? If so, we want to hear from you. (We promise complete anonymity!) We’re working on a new project about happy-ever-afters… and not-so-happy-ever-afters… and we want to interview couples, over email, about the thing that caused their marriage to fail. If you’re interested in sharing your story [...]

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What Makes YOUR Marriage Work?

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

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Are you happily married? If so, we want to hear from you! We’re working on a new project celebrating happy-ever-afters, and we want to interview you over email to find out what makes your marriage a happy one. You can stay completely anonymous, we promise! (Unless you’d care to brag.) If you’re interested in sharing [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want to Go On Dates Anymore

Wednesday, February 12, 2014


If only all couch potatoes looked like this Dear Em & Lo, I have been married and divorced and only just started to date again. Been with this guy for 8 months now. No problems with him lying, cheating, etc. Started off great. Going out, spending time with each other. But of recent months the [...]

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Book Excerpt: Bedded Bliss – A Couple’s Guide to Lust Ever After

Thursday, January 9, 2014


Bedded Bliss: A Couple‚Äôs Guide to Lust Ever After¬†does something novel: it intersperses marital advice for keeping long-term monogamy hot with a collection of erotica. Author Kristina Wright — the editor of a over dozen¬†Cleis Press¬†anthologies, including¬†Fairy Tale Lust, Dream Lover, Lustfully Ever After, Duty and Desire¬†and¬†the Best Erotic Romance¬†series — begins each chapter of [...]

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2014: Year of the Vanilla Revolution?

Tuesday, January 7, 2014


Image via Flickr | Sponsored Post The Fifty Shades of Grey movie may not be scheduled for release until February 13, 2015, but according to LELO, the kinky sex revolution is already waning. According to sales figures of LELO toys, tracked across their top 20 leading markets, sales of BDSM accessories such as whips and teasers reached [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Cheated on My Boyfriend And Don’t Regret It

Wednesday, September 25, 2013


Dear Em & Lo, So I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years, going on 9. We have been together since high school and are now in our mid twenties. I love him very much and used to see myself spending the rest of my life with him up until just a [...]

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Comment of the Week: Monogamish Is the Future

Wednesday, September 18, 2013


Franklin Veaux‚Äôs¬†Map of Non-Monogamy This week’s Comment of the Week by AlanK is a response to last week’s Comment of the Week called “9 Reasons Why Women Cheat” by ¬†Johnny, which was a response to the post “Why Women Cheat — A Married Man Goes Undercover”: Things wear out; the tires on your car wear [...]

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