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Tag Archive | "Non-monogamy"

How to Become a Cuckold (If That’s Your Thing)

Thursday, October 23, 2014

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Every now and then (okay, so it’s not exactly rare!) a reader gives better advice than we ever could. Especially when it’s a very specific situation that we have zero experience in… and the reader has experience in spades. This week is just such a case: Reader Ken shares very smart advice on how to [...]

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Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

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photo via flickr Last week we published reader Sara’s impassioned comment about blowjobs, and how they are not an inalienable right. This week, we are publishing two responses to her by two of our equally thoughtful, passionate, intelligent male readers, Derek and Steve. Can we just say how much we love that a debate like [...]

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The Bachelorette: What Happens in the Fantasy Suite Stays in the Fantasy Suite?

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

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screen shot of ABC’s “After the Final Rose” Last night’s “After the Final Rose” was the most dramatic ever! Not because the Bachelorette (Andi Dorfman) got engaged to a guy (Josh “I Can’t Put My Arms Down” Murray) after only knowing him for two and a half months and only going on, like, three dates [...]

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What Makes YOUR Marriage Work?

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

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Are you happily married? If so, we want to hear from you! We’re working on a new project celebrating happy-ever-afters, and we want to interview you over email to find out what makes your marriage a happy one. You can stay completely anonymous, we promise! (Unless you’d care to brag.) If you’re interested in sharing [...]

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When Do I Tell a New Partner I Want an Open Relationship?

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

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We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below.¬† Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service!   Dear [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Cheated on My Boyfriend And Don’t Regret It

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

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Dear Em & Lo, So I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 8 years, going on 9. We have been together since high school and are now in our mid twenties. I love him very much and used to see myself spending the rest of my life with him up until just a [...]

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Comment of the Week: Monogamish Is the Future

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

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Franklin Veaux‚Äôs¬†Map of Non-Monogamy This week’s Comment of the Week by AlanK is a response to last week’s Comment of the Week called “9 Reasons Why Women Cheat” by ¬†Johnny, which was a response to the post “Why Women Cheat — A Married Man Goes Undercover”: Things wear out; the tires on your car wear [...]

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Is Cuckolding a Real Trend, Or Just Another Internet Meme?

Monday, August 5, 2013

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your thoughts in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Can You Beat the Urge to Stray with One Freebie a Year?

Thursday, August 1, 2013

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photo via flickr “If I tell my child, ‚ÄėNo pizza, no pizza, no pizza,‚Äô what does he want more than anything Pizza!‚ÄĚ And so it is with her husband and sex, claims Russian pop star Masha Lopatova. She is married to Andrei Kirilenko, a basketball player for the Brooklyn Nets — and she has told [...]

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Confession: 8 Rules for the Third Wheel in a Threeway

Thursday, November 1, 2012

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photo via flickr Our¬†contributor is a college student who wishes to remain anonymous. She has some sage advice to impart on the topic of three ways… When people give warnings about threeways, it’s usually directed at couples who are bringing in a third party.¬†Threeways are not a relationship-building exercise, they tell you.¬†Are you sure your [...]

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