Discussions on pegging usually go in one of two directions: 1) Straight into the ugly past where men who enjoy anal play automatically means they’re either girly or gay [sic], OR 2) towards thoughtful discussions about the nuances of sex and the politics of gender. We obviously prefer to highlight the latter, so today we give you Jon’s recent comment on the topic:
When my girlfriend first mentioned doing me [with a strap-on], my response was “ No,” but her argument was “You’ve done it to me.” Can’t really argue with that logic!
Still took a while for me to get comfortable with the idea. For my first time, there was a big feeling of being vulnerable being on hands and knees waiting to get it. But as she said, “Exactly the same as for a woman getting it doggy style,” so it was only “fair” for me to feel the same. It’s the sense of getting it rather than giving it that feels totally different for a man. But getting it that way certainly helps men understand how a woman feels.
Maybe if a woman wants to persuade her guy to try this, another position might be easier for his first time. We’ve tried with me on my back since she likes looking at me while she does me. Still feels vulnerable but not as much as getting on your hands and knees.
