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DIY Toys, Porn Probs & Aspirational Kink — Belle de Jour Interviews Us!

You know the Showtime series “Secret Diary of a Call Girl” from a few years back? Well, before it was a Showtime show it was a British show. Before it was a British show, it was a series of books. Before it was a series of books, it was an award-winning blog  called “Diary of […]

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Top 10 Breakup Songs Taylor Swift SHOULD Write

 photo via WikiCommons Taylor Swift cannot write a bad pop song. She apparently can’t write a song about anything other than breakups, either. While we are shameless Swifties, we’d definitely like to see her branch out more — if not to different subject matter, then at least to some more honest, less PG-13 tales of […]

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Blog Snog: Why Good Women Love Bad Boys

YourTango: Why good women love bad boys. The Frisky: The 10 worst things men can do naked. TresSugar: Advice for every relationship status from SAG-nominated characters. Nerve: An interview with James Deen, the porn world’s “boy next door.” How About We: Why I’ll never cyberstalk anyone ever again. HuffPo Women: A Valentine’s Day survival guide. […]

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Blog Snog: How Do You Get Over a Breakup?

photo via Flickr YourTango: How do you get over a breakup? Take this survey and be entered to win 50 bucks! The Frisky: Gina the chimp only wants to watch porn (see, Creationists, we must share a common ancestor!). TresSugar: In honor of Betty White’s 91st birthday this week, here are some of her best […]

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What’s Your Favorite Incest Plot-Line?

Flowers in the Attic Our Bodies, Ourselves. Judy Blume. Flowers in the Attic. If you grew up in the ’80s, chances are these books had a pretty big impact on your sexual development. In other words, as far as V.C. Andrews’ book goes, you probably have a bit of a thing for incest plot-lines. Forbidden […]

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Top 10 WTF Sex Scenes

All top ten lists are, by their nature, subjective, but this one is especially so — because one person’s “WTF” sex scene is another person’s monkey spanking material. (Exhibit A: we’d qualify a lot of porn as WTF.) A few qualifications: David Lynch probably deserves a place in this list (okay, David Lynch definitely deserves […]

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Our Golden Globies

In honor of the Golden Globes last night, we — the Tina Fey and Amy Poehler of the sex writing world — decided to give out our own awards for the evening: Most Sensual Congratulatory Kiss Sally Field to Daniel Day Lewis (Best Actor for Lincoln). Her hands cradling his face and their slow gentle […]

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Blog Snog: Sex Lessons from Downton Abbey

YourTango: Why I love my 50-year-old body (more than I did my 25-year-old body). The Frisky: 9 sex lessons from Downton Abbey. TresSugar: Flirty films about dating to stream instantly on Netflix. Nerve: The lost boys of Girls. How About We: Why it’s not your fault you were cheated on. HuffPo Women: An open letter to the […]

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Excerpts from “Queerskins,” a New Multimedia Novel

Queerskins Our friend Illya Szilak is a full-time physician specializing in HIV treatment, a mother of two, a world traveller, and, oh yeah, in her spare-time she writes groundbreaking novels. (We both managed to shower today and consider that a huge accomplishment.) Her latest project, QUEERSKINS, is an online multimedia novel that tells the story of […]

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Top 10 Worst Lines in Rom Com History

Maybe you think that nominating specific lines in romantic comedy as bad is kind of superfluous. But that’s probably because you’re thinking only of Kate Hudson’s oeuvre — and forgetting about, say, ANNIE HALL or MOONSTRUCK. Remember when Nicolas Cage told Cher: “Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I […]

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Blog Snog: Modern Love Advice from Cleopatra

photo via Flickr HuffPo Women: Modern Love Advice from Cleopatra YourTango: 3 Self-Empowering Steps to a Sexier Sex Life  Nerve: The Best Nerve Features of 2012 TresSugar: Date Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank How About We: Finding the Balance Between Caution and Free-Falling When Dating The Frisky: What’s IN And OUT For 2013 (the Frisky’s Predictions) 150 Shades […]

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Blog Snog: 5 Love Lessons from TV in 2012

YourTango: 5 love lessons TV taught us in 2012. Nerve: Why I will never sleep with an On the Road fanatic. TresSugar: What celebrity women said about love and sex in 2012. How About We: 7 creative, thoughtful, last-minute gift ideas. HuffPo Women: The 101 most amazing things women said on Twitter this year. The Frisky: 30 important sex […]

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The 12 Days of Kinkmas

In honor of the holidays and the recent publication of our new book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, we wanted to put our own special sexy sacrilegious spin on a Xmas classic. Enjoy: On the 12th Day of Kinkmas my true sub gave to me… 12 Crops a Cracking Disciplinary devices […]

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Top 15 Kinky Celebrities

Of course celebrities like to get kinky — why would they do it vanilla style when they can don an outfit, get into character, and make a scene? And in the bedroom, there’s always an appreciative audience, (and, one would hope, no bad reviews). When you think about it, it’s just surprising more of them […]

Books
H Is for Hardware Store… For All Your Kinky Shopping Needs

The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! A hardware store is a one-stop shopping center for all your BDSM needs. Who […]

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How Headphones Can Kink Up Your Sex Life

photo via flickr The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our new A-Z book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts. The book is on sale now! Ear plugs aren’t just for construction workers and insomniacs, and noise-canceling […]