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Ella, responding to the Question of the Week, “When do you leave the bathroom door open?”:

I’ll never leave the bathroom door open (when using the loo), because my boyfriend thinks that this kills the sex appeal in a partnership. He thinks that one should have certain “secrets” to still perceive the partner as interesting and sexy. And as it’s not too much trouble for me to close a door, I don’t mind….The thing is that I don’t want to become ONE with him, but stay one individual in a (very happy) partnership with another individual (him). So there’s no problem with having certain taboos, and I really don’t have to see him on the loo.