Polls
Em & Lo
6/24/10
Em&Lo's Greatest Hits
My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me
10 Reasons Your “Ugly Vagina” Is Normal and Gorgeous
Dear Dr. Kate: Can You Tell Me All About the NuvaRing?

Favorite Finds
“Difficult Women” by Roxanne Gay

Polaroid Cube

“Outlander” Series

Magic Wand

Coconut Oil Body Polish



21 Comments

  1. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 15 YEARS I NEED MORE SEX MY HUSBAND IS AWAY A LOT. HE HAS SEX WHEN HE GOES AWAY AND SO DO I. THE ONLY RULE IS SAFE SEX, CONDOMS ALL THE TIME, AFTER ALL IT’S ONLY SEX.

  2. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 13 YEARS AND WE HAVE BEEN IN AN OPEN MARRIAGE FOR THE LAST 10. WE FIND IT AWESOME.

  3. Absolutely not.

    I have no fundamental objection to polyamorous relationships of any kind, whether legally binding or otherwise. I’ve been in two relationships that were “open” in slightly different ways, and neither worked: I’m a one-person woman and that, as it turns out, is that.

    In one relationship, I was with two people (everyone knew about everyone, of course) and only ended up feeing, all the time, as though I was cheating — except I never knew who I was cheating ON, and I wasn’t cheating because of our arrangement!

    In the other, I wasn’t dating anyone else, but my partner was (again, all parties knew about all parties), and in this case, I felt as though I was being cheated on or cheated with — although I never knew which one it was, and once again, no cheating was happening.

    For me, madness that way lies. And general confusion plus a dash of malaise.

  4. AMEN Debbie! I have been married 22 years and faithful. I have been through a lot with him. There has been moments I thought he was having an affair because he would leave and I would keep taking him back. Now that I have been through all of this with him my kids r grown and having there own children I want more. I would very much like to have a open marriage BUT I know it could never be!!!! I Love him very much but as a friend after everything.

  5. I have been married 31 years and I think if we had went with the open marriage from the beginning I wouldn’t feel I had been cheated on. As it is now, I have no trust for my husband. So I voted yes to your poll.

  6. I have never known a man to be “ok” with his female companion sleeping with someone else. “Open relationships” always seem to work out like a lot of middle eastern relationships…males sleep around while females are dominated. No thanks.

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