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Dear Em & Lo,
My parents did not believe in circumcision so they left me natural, and I don’t have any problems with the way I am and I have not had any problems with ladies. But I would like to know what women really think about foreskin or no skin? I ask this because there seems to be a disconnect between what some people say publicly and what they believe privately. Is there a difference between the ethical and the erotic for women? It’s easy to imagine a woman not wanting to hurt a baby, but might that same woman find circumcised penises more of a turn on? In this PC culture, it can be hard to acertain people’s true opinions. What are the majority of women’s ethical and sexual preferences when it comes to a circumcised or uncircumcised penis — and, more to the point, are those two things usually the same?
— Uncut Collegian
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At about the age of 24 I was with my first uncircumsized man, who ended up being the father of my youngest child.I was not forwarned that he was not circumsized, when I reached down and touched him, I was initailly shocked and a little put off. Once we got into the act I thorougly enjoyed the experience. I cant say that circumsized is better than uncircumsized, or vice versa. Both are pleasureable, although there are times when I missed the feel of “hard head” penetrating me.
Cut for me, but both have their ups and downs, no pun intended.
Uncut has quite a few entertainment possibilities as Anathema described so well above. However cut is more aestheticially pleasing both visually and smell-wise.
I prefer playing with a cut penis because its like getting to the meat without having to maneuver the skin.
Either way, I by choice will learn to appreciate my man whatever way he comes. I prefer to prefer the one I am with.
Doctor D – state your sources?
To circumcise or not is absolutely a matter of personal choice. However, as a medical professional I feel obliged to state that the vast majority of uterine cancers are to be found in women who have sexual relations with uncircumcised men. This is an absolute fact.
Further to the above, the majority of penile cancer cases – a truly devastating affliction – are with men who are not circumcised. My only advice is to form your own conclusions and make your own decisions based on them.
I suppose if you love the man it won’t matter whether or not he is circumsized. However, I am Jewish and I do believe in circumcision because it is more hygenic and the man will have far less complications in the future.
To every Mother of uncircumcised sons: I hope you plan on raising your Grandchildren, paying for their clothes, schools and weddings. I hope you have plenty of love to share. Why? Because, chances are – the mother of those lovely grandchildren with an uncircumcised father will suffer from cancer and not be able to mother her children. So you will have to take on that job yourself! Hope you get your PAP smear once a year!!!
If a woman wants a circumcised mate, I say circumcise yourself first.
I not sure who told you that as man’s penis is more sensitive uncut. I’m cut and tremendously sensitive. How can a penis be more sensitive when it’s got a rubber sock on it. The feel of a wet, warm vagina with a raincoat on?! Come on!
Most women have most of the feeling close to the entrance of their vagina. Around and in the lips, their clit and the vaginal walls. So it’s really about the size of a man’s head (and his ability to use it).
And it would stand to reason that it’s a whole lot harder to keep clean if it’s uncut.
I have 5 kids 3 are boys all natural. My last one has a different daddy and he wants him circumcised because of stigma although he is not. I hate that thi sis lines up to happen and I pray the insurance falls though. Uncircumcised is natural is beautiful and I believe the only reason it became popular was because of religeon and somewhere along the line non Jewish people thought hey i want to be one of Gods chosen few lets get circumcised. That is the difference between Jew and Gentile. its biblical and it became popular thereafter somewhere along the line. There is nothing wrong with an uncircumcised Penis…an accessory to play with if your a female extra pleasure if your a male. I say the hoodys need to stay and power to the Snupalupagus….
I consider the practice of circumcision to be a form of sexual mutilation, so wouldn’t opt to subject a son to it. As far as adult cock appreciation goes, I’m fine with either cut or uncut; it’s my feelings for the guy the cock is attached to that take primacy.
Maybe I’m hypocritical – I’ve seen infant boys circumcised when they’re only a few days old, and I think it’s obscene. However, I’ve only had sex with an uncut man once – basically because I never saw another one before or since – and I think it’s ugly, although the sex was good. When I was dating my future husband, I started to ask “Have you been…” and he interrupted me and said “yes, I have.” He knew I was talking about circumcision and didn’t even need me to finish the sentence. Obviously, men know the sensitivity around ownership or lack of foreskin! I have to say I was relieved. I wouldn’t turn down a guy because of being uncut but I sure would rather have the other. BTW, my late husband did it as an adult for hygienic reasons. As for the women who compare cutting off a foreskin to “female circumcision,” it doesn’t even come close. Female genital mutilation (or circumcision as it’s sometimes called) is cutting off the clitoris and, in some countries, the labial folds as well then sewing them up. Sex is incredibly painful and many girls die from infection (it’s often done without anesthesia). It’s not even to be compared with a clip off a guy’s dick.
Oh, I totally prefer uncut men. The various things that can be done to give and get pleasure are enormous. There is such a big turn on seeing the engorged ,purple cock head slowly exposed as you slip the foreskin down the head and over the rim. mmmmmm! I’m getting moist thinking about it.
American health care personell is not that used to uncut dicks, so perhaps you should not listen too much to them?
sweetness, healthcare workers, while providing good care to you and your family, are like any other human beings….the jokes we tell are not motivated by malice, necessarily, but a means of surviving the environment. When you, in the course of a single shift, catheterize a man who hasn’t washed his genitalia in probably 3 years, because he is unable due to massive obesity, clean heme+ stool off of you, the patient, and the bed, slurp snot out of someone’s trach, digitally disimpact a patient, and remove boots and socks from a homeless person, only to discover wildlife–i.e., maggots—in his feet……then possibly you will understand.
I don’t, actually, believe that circumcision is a good thing. I said, rather facetiously, that seriously unwashed—and often inflamed and infected—penii were enough to make one think that it might not be as bad of an idea as we think. It is easy to say, as an unimpaired person, that you would never leave yourself unwashed. However, many families are seriously reluctant to handle the genitalia of their parents….and as such, the patients go unwashed. Even more are they less willing to skin back the foreskin and actually clean that thing….
@fuzzy
No offense, but for a “health care professional” (whatever that refers to exactly) you sound really unprofessional and I would definitely not want you to provide any sort of health care to my family or me with your attitude.