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Tag Archive | "Etiquette"

Comment of the Week: Blow Jobs Aren’t an Inalienable Right

Thursday, October 16, 2014


In an impassioned response to our post, “Your Call: She Doesn’t Like Going Down,” reader Sara¬†doesn’t pull any punches when discussing those who prioritize sex acts over actual people. She really gets going in the fourth paragraph!: You know what makes it easier to like something? Being able to choose freely whether to do it [...]

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What Guys Really Think When a Woman Has Sex on the First Date

Tuesday, September 23, 2014


Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Does sleeping with a guy on a first date really ruin my chances for a future relationship with him? What if it’s obvious we really like each other, the chemistry’s great, we have a lot in common, and we’re both horny?” Straight [...]

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Why He Didn’t Call or Text When He Said He Would

Tuesday, August 19, 2014


Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Why didn’t he call ¬†(or text/email/Gchat/et al) when he said he would? Straight Married Guy (Matt): There’s a simple answer to this one: it doesn’t matter. Most women I know get very worked up over this, and it never helps anything. It [...]

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Straight Guys: How to Respond to Being Hit On by a Woman

Friday, August 1, 2014


photo via Flickr A note to straight men: We’re constantly hearing you guys complain that you still have to do almost all of the pick-up leg-work. But then when a woman does attempt to hit on you in a bar, a lot of you turn around and call her “desperate” — even in 2014! (Er, [...]

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The Bachelorette: What Happens in the Fantasy Suite Stays in the Fantasy Suite?

Tuesday, July 29, 2014


screen shot of ABC’s “After the Final Rose” Last night’s “After the Final Rose” was the most dramatic ever! Not because the Bachelorette (Andi Dorfman) got engaged to a guy (Josh “I Can’t Put My Arms Down” Murray) after only knowing him for two and a half months and only going on, like, three dates [...]

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Comment of the Week: Porn Is No Biggie

Wednesday, June 18, 2014


photo via Flickr Reader Jessica¬†wrote the following in response to our post,¬†”Wise Guys: He Looks at Other Women But Gets Jealous If I Ogle Men“: I used to be one of those women, when I was younger, who would fly off the handle if I saw my boyfriend looking at another woman. After going through [...]

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Poll: Is the Gym Off-Limits as a Pick-Up Spot?

Wednesday, June 11, 2014


photo via Flickr Recently, Johnny, one of our most loyal commenters, posted the following in response to our Blog Snog partner’s article “Guys of Reddit share the cheesy pickup lines that actually kind of work“: The lesson behind those corny pickup lines is that women like an outgoing guy. It‚Äôs not the lines that worked [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Talk About Penis Size with Your Man

Wednesday, October 2, 2013


photo via Flickr Reader Tony¬†offers the following answer to the post question¬†“If He Asks About Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?”¬†: I would try as much as possible to stay with a response that is both kind and honest. ¬†As a man, if my partner is trying to stick to those two principles I [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Won’t Go Down on Me

Wednesday, September 18, 2013


photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, When my boyfriend and I started seeing each other he made it clear he had a problem with performing oral sex and so I’ve never asked him to do it as, after all, I wouldn’t want to do something I wasn’t comfortable with or wouldn’t enjoy. However, after [...]

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Top 5 Love Lessons Learned from The Bachelorette (S 9, Ep 6)

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

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photo via ABC.com There are no imperfect places to fall in love in the entire resort world. None. Yes, yes, do take your date by the hand in the middle of some boring event, run out into a nearby secluded corridor, press them up against the wall and kiss them passionately, please, yes, do that. [...]

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