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Tag Archive | "Gender Issues"

10 Quick Lessons from “Parenting Beyond Pink and Blue”

Wednesday, November 5, 2014


I consider myself a hardcore feminist (I’ve even got the T-shirt), one who’s attuned to all the gender stereotypes bombarding us daily. I work hard to combat them whenever and wherever I can. But I don’t live in a vacuum, and I’ve found myself falling into traps I thought I could avoid: like talking tougher [...]

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Which Disney Princess Are You? (Em & Lo Style)

Monday, January 27, 2014


Results from the Zimbio quiz “Which Disney Princess Are You?” have been popping up in our Facebook feed this week. Most of them are as saccharine and subtly sexist as the Disney movies themselves: They’re just begging for a more honest edit, with a little tough love thrown in — one that reflects the disturbing [...]

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Porn & Romance: An Odd Couple?

Wednesday, December 18, 2013


The following is a sub-chapter about “the age of hypersexualization” from the new book “THE NEW SOFT WAR ON WOMEN: How the Myth of Female Ascendance Is Hurting Women, Men — and Our Economy” by Caryl Rivers and Rosalind C. Barnett, Ph.D. It’s the perfect holiday gift for anyone who says we live in a [...]

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Top 10 Women Under 40 Who Push Back

Wednesday, December 5, 2012


This article originally appeared on SundanceChannel.com Inspired by the Sundance Channel’s docu-series PUSH GIRLS, about¬†four outspoken young women in wheelchairs — AMC Networks just announced that they’ve started filming a second season — we decided to write about ten women under 40 who push back in their own way.¬†To help us narrow down the list [...]

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In Defense of the “Woman-Child”

Monday, September 10, 2012


photo via Flickr I (Lo here) consider myself a pretty hardcore feminist. And I love Jezebel.com. So I expected their “Woman-Child” article today to be just my kind¬†of internet candy. My best guess about its focus? The media’s obsession with infantalizing women to make them seem cuter, softer, more¬†likeable. But it actually turned out to [...]

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Top 10 Wars Won by Women

Thursday, August 16, 2012

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In this, the year of the War on Women, it seems important to take a look back on all the hard-won battles women have poured their blood, sweat and tears into over the past 150 years. Seeing how far we’ve come makes it hard to understand why there are so many people across the country [...]

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Women Kick Ass at Olympics, Still More Ass to Be Kicked

Tuesday, August 14, 2012


photo via Flickr Reuters writer Belinda Goldsmith had¬†a great roundup yesterday of “The Women’s Games”, which is what many are calling the 2012 Summer¬†Olympics¬†(which — for those of you living under a rock — just wrapped up this past weekend in London). Here’s a quick summary of the important stats, but the whole¬†article¬†is worth a [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Straight Men Have Such a Problem with Male Nudity?

Tuesday, July 17, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of¬†EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Women put up with female nudity in movies all the time, but guys freak if there’s the occasional male butt – what gives?“ To ask the guys your own question,¬†click here. Married Straight Guy (Fred): Do men freak? Maybe the ones [...]

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Confession: I’m a BDSM Beginner

Thursday, June 28, 2012


Lelo’s “Etherea” Silk Cuffs A female friend of ours, a recent college grad who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: I think I might be kinky. I know, I know: These days, who isn’t? With Fifty Shades of Grey refusing to budge from the bestseller list and Rihanna singing about how chains [...]

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Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About Their Girlfriends Kissing Other Women?

Tuesday, June 19, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúWould a guy feel cheated on if his girlfriend made out with another girl, or is that somehow different territory?‚Ä̬†To ask the guys your own question,¬†click here. Straight Married Guy (Ben):¬†I think it all depends on the spirit of the make [...]

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