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Wise Guys: What Would You Do As a Woman for One Day?

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

photo via Flickr dvice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What would you do if you had one day to be and think like a woman?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Ben): The very first thing I’d do is make out with my wife — so hot [...]

The Slow But (Hopefully) Steady Erosion of Gender Stereotypes

Friday, January 13, 2012

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Stop the presses! A detergent commercial with just a normal dad doing laundry. For our book club, we’re reading the 2003 novel “We Need to Talk About Kevin” by Lionel Shriver.* I, Lo, knowing nothing about the book or its author, began reading and was amazed that a male author could create a female narrator that [...]

Wise Guys: What Do Most Guys Think of Feminism?

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do most guys think of feminism: a successful movement that’s not needed any more, an eternal campaign of whiney man-haters, or a philosophy that makes the world a better place for both men and women?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Single Bisexual [...]

“Bounce That Dick,” Feminist or Not?

Friday, December 30, 2011

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When we were sent a link to the new YouTube video “Bounce That Dick” on the Jenna Marbles channel, we didn’t know what to expect: some kind of safe-for-work sexual technique advice video by a porn star turned educator? Then, during the first 30 seconds, our hopes were raised, as the young “blogger and entertainer” began [...]

Winners of a Great Rewrite-the-Ending Contest

Thursday, December 29, 2011

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Through our friend, Lynn Harris, writer, co-creator of Breakup Girl, and now communications strategist for something called Breakthrough, we heard about a “Rewrite the Ending” contest (which ended last month): Show of hands- How many of you wish that: - Andy (Pretty in Pink) had ended up with Ducky? - After Willy dies (Death of a [...]

Comments of the Week: Is Cunnilingus Inherently Sapphic? Duh.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

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photo via Flickr We wouldn’t want you to think EMandLO.com is anally fixated or anything, we just really appreciate the whole “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” argument when it comes to defending straight men being receptive to a little backdoor love. Hence, the second comment of the week in a [...]

How Different Are Girls’ and Boys’ Brains?

Monday, November 21, 2011

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It’s a favorite question of ours…okay, of mine (i.e. Lo’s). And my personal answer is that yes, there are differences, but not as many or as great as our culture likes to assume or presume. And that bias we have as a society actually influences the development of boys’ and girls’ brains (which are elastic) [...]

Artist Rion Sabean’s “Men-Ups”

Friday, October 7, 2011

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We once did a photo shoot for The Sun, that super trashy but widely popular newspaper in the UK (you know, the one with the “Page 3 girl”). We were promoting the British edition of our book, The Big Bang. We were young and naive, the photographer was old and pushy, and as he gradually encouraged us [...]

Wise Guys: Is Manscaping Required These Days?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

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photo by Vladimir Istomin Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is manscaping automatically required these days for men under a certain age? And if so, what does this entail exactly?” Straight Committed Guy (Johnny): Without knowing exactly what age you mean, or whether I fall into this age [...]

Wise Guys: Tomboy vs. Girly Girl — Who Wins?

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

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photo by Americanistadechiapas Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Regarding the “guy’s girl”: Is a woman who’ll shoot pool and pound a few brews automatically sexier than a girly girl?” Straight Single Guy (Chris): Let’s get this one straight once and for all. There is nothing sexier than [...]


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Wise Guys: What Would You Do As a Woman for One Day?

The Slow But (Hopefully) Steady Erosion of Gender Stereotypes

Wise Guys: What Do Most Guys Think of Feminism?

“Bounce That Dick,” Feminist or Not?

Winners of a Great Rewrite-the-Ending Contest

Comments of the Week: Is Cunnilingus Inherently Sapphic? Duh.

How Different Are Girls’ and Boys’ Brains?

Artist Rion Sabean’s “Men-Ups”

Wise Guys: Is Manscaping Required These Days?

Wise Guys: Tomboy vs. Girly Girl — Who Wins?

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